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do you let the world know your zoo or not .i have three germanshepherd females i wair a ring on my ring finger and each one has a ring on there collar .that to me is a symble of are love ,no one has ever ask about it .but many have seen it .i was just wondering if you show it or not
Nope, I dare not having a big family Mabie in a suttle way if I can come up with one.
no way my buddy flipped at the idea of people lovingtheir animals that way. even though i make comments here and thereand the like he doesn't get it which is fine by me i would wear a shirt orput a sticker on my car
I have let only a few select close friends know, and they're all cool about it
nope - not at the moment anyway.Came close to telling a friend, but luckily realised before it was too late that he wasn't the right person to tell
Only people I have met here on BF. But of those I have only met a few in person. It's a shame really, I love my dogs as much (and in some cases more) than any human I have been with. It would be nice to be able to share with some of my other friends. C'est la Vie, such is the life of a Zoo.
Not since I shared with other male freinds when I was younger. I have told no one since then. I would love to find someone to share my love of female k9s, but im afraid that sharing could get me in trouble with the law.
Actually no, and I don't intend to show it in near future, but it doesn't mean that It wont happen .
I think some people have some ideas but no I have not told anyone. I adopted the don't ask don't tell moto.
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In all these years I've never told anyone. And until I found this forum, did not know of anyone else who is a zoo-person.For me, finding the Beast Forum showed me that I was not the only one who has such a special relationship with their best friend, like I do with my Muffin.I have posted things on here that just a short time ago, thought would never have shown anyone...ever.
I agree with hambletonian. Until I discovered the forum I didnt even know therewas a population of people who felt the same way I did.I joke about it all the time, but Ive never seriously told anyone in person aboutmy feelings. Only here in the forum. That is what I love about this place so much,is that I can finally express my zoo fellings here and also find alot of answers to questions you can never ask a veternarian. Also its nice to try to help others withthings I have experienced.As far as letting anyone in person know, I havent built up the courage to do so.I plan on it someday, but Ill wait until the right person comes along that I canshare this with. Until then I will always have you people here in the forumto share with and that is very special to me by itself.I get the feeling that people in town suspect my relations with my 2 dogsbut no one has come up to me and said anything yet.They sometimes comment about the fact that I live back in the woods with 2female k-9's and havent had a girlfriend in over 8 years. The nearest town is very small so these kind of rumors are to be expected I would have to assume.Some day Ill tell. Thanx for listening and take care everyone, sincerly "Jezz"
I definately think you have to be very sure what someone's reaction will be before you tell them. I don't think there is anyone I could tell, I'm not one for volunteering such information anyway.
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I really do not have the desire. I chat with people on the site and thats good enough for me.
I have told many people,including family.And make joking comments all the time with everyone else,all they have to do is ask and I will be glad to tell them,for I have nothing to lose but them,and if they don't like me afterward then I don't need them.Everyone who meets me knows how much effort I put into taking care of animals,some think I care too much,and many people suspect it cause I show no interest in humans at all but have never actually said anything more than a few jokes."jezzabelle" I love your idea,I may copy that one for myself as well.If you don't mind.
What idea rottluver??? And whatever it is, I certainly dont mind. Ill share anythingwith the exception of my k-9's.
QUOTE (jezzabelle @ Aug 29 2005, 02:10 AM) What idea rottluver??? And whatever it is, I certainly dont mind. Ill share anythingwith the exception of my k-9's. Sorry!My mistake,that was "moparmindy",that uses the rings.Sorry again.I love the ring idea.
I would never let my family know, that would be terrifying. I only have one close friend who knows about it and they don't mind, that's about it though.
Hi,From an old fogies point of view, better think twice before revealing your true love.Most people can handle jokes, and most all guys just love to look at the female human/animal action, but to admit to it as a lifestyle is totally different. Suddenly you become something similar to a child rapist.A few people know of my activities. The only ones that ever accepted it were fellow zoos that I had meet years ago from personal ads when it was not so taboo to advertise, and most people were fairly genuine.I had told a few girlfriends hoping for the best. Having a girlfriend/wife that can understand my lifestyle would be heaven for me, but it never happened. One tolerated it, and the last one, after 5 years of our relationship, finally told me that I have to choose between her or the ponies. Well she lost.If you were to contemplate telling anyone, first do an ice breaker, like mentioning you seen some animal action on the net and found it strangely exciting, and wondered how your felt about such stuff?? I would definite approach it from an innocent curious point of view, and do et very slowly ofer a long period of time.That way you have plenty of warning to back off.
I joke about it quite a bit, but people think it's just joking. The guy I work for just got two llamas, and I've received a lot of kidding about that. Stuff like "sheep on stilts" and things. I just tell them the llamas are safe, since they're males, so I have to stay with my sheep. Well, I don't really have sheep and they know it, but I have had access to them. I have told my best friend about it, and even have had sex with some animals in front of him. He was cool with it, although he wouldn't join in.
My girlfriends knew.My ladyfriends know.My friends know.My family knows.Even by accident my colleagues know.And yes most of my internet contacts (those I met live, those who I keep seeing live, and those just on the internet) knows I am a zoo and fancy horsies a lot!I'd say over 90 percent know about it.Took some time and shock effects (especially and mostly from my family) but I got there in the end.Especially because I know I am zoo, and that I can explain what it is.And most of all... as it isn't an excuse but it is a big cause: I was a horse in my previous life.And due to the rapid reincarnation process that horsey energy came a long with me.Human outside.Horse inside.This has been confirmed by multiple persons and "those who can see".But they were a mere confirmation as pieces memory and flashbacks of my previous lives were already there.And of course (back then) unexplainable deep rooted feelings towards horses.But as I have spent a long time taking myself and my feelings seriously and working with myself in that fassion, it has been a lot easier for people to accept it since they see there is a bit more then "just a guy who loves to do horsies".I am not ashamed of who I am.There are a few exceptions who don't know about my sexuality.And most people I don't even tell about my previous life since they don't even believe in reincarnation.(With all due respect, those who read this and don't believe in reincarnation ect. either, please don't try to argue or start a discussion about it with me because I know, I see, I feel, I experienced, and I don't need someone to tell me otherwise about it! Thank you! )
Wow, I really admire and respect people who've had the courage to tell their friends and family I, however, don't have that kind of courage. Noone knows about this part of me aside from the people of these forums. Not even the ones I trust and love most know.Once day I might feel comfortable telling someone, but not now
i did tell 3 of my friends that i was zoo... the first i told i had to give it in written form because it was too hard to say it verbally... the other 2 i told verbally... they were all cool with the fact that i was zoo... i truely do have good friends
Yes I feel the same way as most ofyour responders.. I don't tell them that I love my dogs better than I do a human. And as some do have plontonic jokes about such matters you just don't delve into the particulars.. Over the years I have had some of my best sexual encounters!!!!!! Now I have found a home???
The only person I've told so far is my sister. I told her while we were on a long drive together. I told her that I have a secret "problem" that if anyone else found out, it could ruin my life. After several minutes of explaining the seriousness of the issue and that she must not tell anyone else, I told her I was sexually attracted to animals.She was accepting and took it very well. She didn't understand what I meant at first. She was 19 at the time and had been heterosexually active. But she didn't know it was possible to have sex with animals. She's definitely not interested in it but accepts that I'm into it. She did worry me though, when I found out she told my mom that she was worried that I'd end up loving horses more than women. I need to have a little talk with her about that. She thinks it is possible for me to change.Interesting reading everyone else's replies. Thanks!
I have told a few good freinds about my desires with different responces from them all. A few wanted to join in a try for themselves what it was like both female and male freinds. One buddy used to love to come over with his dog and watch me enjoy myself while he would beat off. The one that I expected to be cool about it was the one person the reacted the most negative and pretty much put a damper on our freindship. This bothered me since we were such good freinds and shared so much. I dropped the bomb on most of my freinds while we were drinking of course or talking about sex or watching porn. Usually start by telling them about a magazine I once saw or a film somebody once showed me. After I get some reaction I decide if I should tell them.
I haven´t tell anyone yet, but my best friend and one of my brothers know that I like to watch vidoes about it, so thats a good start.
i have told my family, came out on anonomous forums, and told my best friend.oh and basically my entire school found out when I was younger..... that sucked... but i moved so its all good now.my parents were discusted by it and sent me to a psyciatrist but once they found out that it wasnt really something they could change they were cool about it. i even get teased about it occasionally lolmy best friend didnt believe me at first ....... that was until he caught me making out with my mare. he is cool with it but cant understand it. he jokes with me about it alot, and we are still best friends.other than that not very many other people know, and i plan on keeping it that way.
My Vet knows. She brought me into this as I worked for her as a vet tech. In a related situation, a horse breeder knows about me and uses me, but she does not know who I am nor where I live. Nor does she care to. Just wants to know how to contact me. I, however, know about 10 men and women who indulge in this. That is the flip side of this question, and the rule MUST be: never out them. Its their business to tell if they wish. Not yours. Take care!
QUOTE (Stripes @ Sep 7 2005, 07:07 PM) i have told my family, came out on anonomous forums, and told my best friend.oh and basically my entire school found out when I was younger..... that sucked... but i moved so its all good now. Stripes,You got a lot of balls. I can only imagine the teasing you had to take. "The whole school"!!! Just curious if anyone tried to take any legal action against you for animal abuse?? I would be curious about what the psychologist had said in more detail??ponylovelike your avatar
it wasnt too bad just alot of people who quit being friends and and alot of teasing etc. alot either didnt care or didnt beleive it. luckily nothing serious came about it, besides being condemned to hell countless times. it is very nice being somewhere where no one knows about it.as for the shink, he had no expereince dealing with this. he mainly looked at how i viewed the relationship as well as the history behind it. he concluded that it was an early life event of some sort not just a phase or something that my parents thought it was.
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thanks for all the replyzzzzzzz .my boss knows about it ,he ask me ,i bring my girls to work with me since i work alone on the 4-12 shift .i told him the truth .he said he figured that since im never to fare from them and they are never fare from me .i also told my sister she had mixed emotions but after i ashord her that i had feeling for them and it was not just a sex thing she was pritty ok with it .
My boyfriend knows, and that's it.But that's fine. After all, he's the only other human being in the universe who deserves to know who I screw.
currently nobody oh wait my mates.im a big furry hentai fan, so i decided to join.my mates know my "fetish" cauz they like it just like me.
I just let one know. Others i just bring up the topic to see what they think about it. This way i cans ee what they think and not give it away that i am a zoo.
It came up in a discussion by my uncle who works in a jail, and both my sister & mom went "eww" to it So I have to be very careful around my houseWell, it's nice to find out their oppinion, without having to bring it up myself.
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Ive told it to a friend of mine she found it interesting and i showed her what to do but she just watched. She said she didnt think she could take it and right now im trying to talk her into letting me give her a "Hands on" experience
QUOTE (Spencer21 @ Sep 16 2005, 05:25 PM) Ive told it to a friend of mine she found it interesting and i showed her what to do but she just watched. She said she didnt think she could take it and right now im trying to talk her into letting me give her a "Hands on" experience be careful, or you may push her farther away, even to the point she doesn't want to be with you
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i keep asking my best friend if he wants to get with my mare ... he just walks away shaking his head and laughing. he thinks the whole idea is funny, but he never knocks me for my interests.
I am 67 years old I have been zoo as long as can re member. I didn’t know why I like to play with my dogs 7,8 years old. Put it way when I took a wife. I now 5 son 6 grandson. and as for is I know no one know and I gees it will be that when I die. Their or so meny people out there just wont to hurt people they do not under stand. Then there is the law . If you get cough with vid or pic can jail time. There was a men in Texas cough having sex with a cow. When he went be for the judge. The judges ask him why would do such a thing like that. The man drop his pants ask the judge do you know a woman that will take this. But it did not keep from going to jail. I know on one that is zoo or ??. Most people think a bitch only wont sex when she come in heat How wrong they or. Had sweet bitch get on my back and hump me to let me know some sex she was the one that started this with me. I never was able to have intercourse with her all she wonted lay on here back and rub her while she hump my hand I did love her.This is 5th I have every written or told any one of secret life.
I've only let one other person know how I feel about horses. I consider him one of my closest friends, we've known each other for almost 15 years. It doesn't bother him and hasn't affected our friendship at all. I wish I could let others know, and could be more comfortable with it in my own home. I'm living with two room mates right now and both of them have expressed utter disgust at the idea, so I must take all precautions I can to make sure they don't find out.My room mates know that I really love horses and care for them a lot (they see this when they see me interact with the horses where I work), they just don't know that I am extremely attracted to horses sexually, and would love the chance to pleasure a mare or stallion.Oh how I yearn for the day where I'll be living alone with a farm of my own and a sweet little mare to pleasure whenever she wants. Alas, that day is far into the future, and I must keep my feelings hidden until then.
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In this judgmental society I would not dare tell any one that is not directly involved. I have three of my best friends that I could and would tell any thing, but this, even though in the past have made many jokes, and related stories in the news. This forum has been a blessing for me, to learn and share with others that have little opportunity in the outside world, because I don't think it will ever be accepted in the "free world". Stand together or we stand Alone
NOOOOOOO,,,,,oggy
QUOTE (rottluver @ Aug 29 2005, 01:59 AM) I have told many people,including family.And make joking comments all the time with everyone else,all they have to do is ask and I will be glad to tell them,for I have nothing to lose but them,and if they don't like me afterward then I don't need them. I wish I could be as emotionally secure as you. I am terrified of letting my family know. My parents took it really hard when I informed them that I was bi and that the gf I share my apt with is more than just a friend. I can just imagine the horror in their eyes if I were to let them know about my dog I've said it before - I am ever so grateful for places like BF Until I hopped onto the internet, well, let's say I am just grateful to know that I'm not alone.I'm still extremely paranoid about anyone finding out but at least now I can accept myself for who I am - even if others cannot.Huggles
In today's treacherous world it actualy comes to the question "whom would u trust your secrets without beeng afraid of him/her betraying u"? Well, except those that actualy introduced me to "it" and those whom I meet at such activities, the only ppl I told myself are my dad, my doughter and two helpers in a kenel that let me have some fun there, for a price ofcourse. These two guys have much more to lose than gaining by auting me, and with family is a completely different. Sometimes I daydream about beeng able to tell freely someone "oh, go f**k uself, I much prefer your dog to u", but...it won't happen in this lifetime, it seems.
I'm lucky in that a few close friends know about me. I met them through a male friend who first introduced me to his dog. Most are guys and they enjoy watching me with their dogs. They are very strict on pics etc as they know that we could all be in trouble, even though we are not hurting anyone Lisa xxx
Ive only told one of my friends about my love for skunks and she was pretty cool with it. The only other person that knows is someone I met on here that shares my interest. It felt so good to finally talk to someone about it, especially my friend since she was cool about it and respected that I was brave enough to tell her and that she thought how I felt about my pet was very sweet.
I've tried dropping hints to my friends when I was 19. We were hanging out and I said "I like animals!" and they said "Yeah, they're pretty cool." But I said "No, I like them in a different way." It took them a while but they thought it was a joke and laughed. I wasnt kidding though. And with that same group of friends, I was asked what my weirdedst dream was. I said " I was out in the woods having my way with a wolf." My friend agreed that was weird and asked me what my best dream was. I said "That one". He just laughedOther than that, I keep it a secret..
A few weeks ago i told my two most trusted friends about who I am, basically i told them all about zoophilia and its difference to beastiality. Zoophilia being sex with animals for love and not just pleasure and that zoophiles would never see an animal hurt or anything of the sort. Then i progressed to say that I am a canine zoophile and guess what, they were fine about it! i said 'so you don't have a problem with it?' and they said 'no as long as the animal doesn't get hurt' I felt great after it, like a great weight had been lifted from my chest. Only problem is, would i ever be able to tell my parents? how would they react? the people who would accept zoophilia as one of their loved ones sexualities as far as i can tell are very rare. I think I am very lucky to have friends like these, I hope some of you guys have some similar stories that you would like to share.Look my first post! and it is a positive one!The life of a zoo can be so confusing sometimes as i am sure you all know, but with the help of those loyal friends i have felt better about myself over the past few weeks.by the way this forum is awesome!
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I have actually told of my closest friends and my mother. I do have to say... my mother was a bit shocked at first, but after about a day she was ok with it, and still is. I figure, if my friends can't accept me for who I am then I don't need them. Being not a very (humanly) social person to begin with makes this easier.Cydel
There is only one person i have told about my love and desire as a zoo and it turns out to be my caring and understanding wife. Who would have known 8 years ago when i was sitting behind her in (of all places) psychology class that it would turn out that we shared a simalir love for our four footed friends.
I cant believe your mom accepted you must have a very caring mother
i hear many people are wearing the greek letter "Z" from Zetacreation.combut i think i went a bit farther...what do you think... cool or big ballssee attached foto , yes this is a real tag and its on my car hardly anyone gets it tho...they cannot comprenhend theall fours part ( ALL4Z ) :dog: *Edit*Picture and plate number removed
Me think posting that kind of information on the internet...not good!
i have had the tag now for 3-4 yrs now.. no one has a clue around here...
I have never told any of my family or friends about my sexuality. My dad would not, as far as I know, have really understood my love for animals. My mother would be likely to go into orbit. She has gotten rather religious lately, and at her age, I'd not want to upset her with the information. I've just turned 67 myself. I'd also be leery of telling my sisters and brothers about it. I was on several email lists, now all deleted, including 2 that I started (one being a backup for the first). Mine was goatsex, and I went so far as to get a URL. www.goatsexlover.net. not much there really, as it is hosted on a site where I'd possibly get bounced from if I put any sexual pictures there. The one picture I do have there is the one you see here. Years ago, we used to joke a lot about cow ####ing, and sheep ####ing. Most thought it was just a joke, not knowing that I'd love to mate with a sheep. I'm not so sure about cows though, as I understand they tend to take a dump about the time you really get going, and that'd be one stinky mess.... Years ago, I used to have sex with one guy that told me several times about someone he knew that had sex with anything and everything. But I never really told him that I'd love to try it myself. Anyway, I've never really met anyone that I was really sure was into sex with animals. Hope to meet some of the people on this forum once I move to Arizona. It's hell to not be able to talk to people about what you really like. But I'd rather not take chances with people that I'm not sure about. Too many possible problems there. Here in California, it is considered animal abuse, and I know of one person who was outed by a jealous ex roomie, and was convicted on some felony charges as well. So best to keep it a low profile here. Anyway, hope to meet a few like souls once I have moved. Cabron45...
I don’t really feel the need to talk about this, if someone figures it out its ok by me, I am not looking for somebody to excuse me for what I am, I feel fine by my self, I don’t know how my friends or anyone would take it so I don’t risking of telling, and I don’t care if they know about me or not as long as nobody attacks me.
I've been strongly atracted to dogs my entire life. my first sexual awakenings were in the presence of my pets. all my life I've lived with this 'curse'. many many times I've hated it simply because I felt so strange and outcast. I'm sure you all have felt the same. Then I met the most beautiful women in the world. We fell madly in love. Truly it was love at first site. I'm a very ethical person, and take marriage very seriously. I don't beleive that husbands and wives should keep any secrets from one another, especially one like this. My atraction to dogs is something that I don't think will go away, and I couldn't bare the thought of keeping a life-long secret from my soul mate. So out of fareness to her, and let me tell you it KILLED me to do it. I confessed. I was scared shitless. I just knew she was going to leave me. I feared the worst. I thought she might tell people etc etc. My family is huge, and very strict. I would be shunned and truly outcast. My dearest love and I talked for an hour in bed about. Just cuddling as she asked questions and I gave honest answers. She was purturbed and shocked as you can expect. I'm not kinky or freaky or anything, I just love good old fashioned hetero sex. Our sex life was, and is straight up, normal, and awesome! So when she found this out she was flabbergasted. But she excepted it! Wow what a huge relief. Joy swept over me. At long last I had shared my secret, and with the only person who it really mattered. I am overjoyed. I love her more than ever, and every day is better than the last because she is in my life. I am the luckiest man alive. my wife then went on to tell me a few things about herself involving a dog. Now it was my turn to be shocked!!! It's late, so I will write more on that later, and probably in it's own thread. A story maybe??? hahaneo
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I have never thought of what I am as beging a 'curse'... in fact, I love what I am and would never have it any other way. This is exactly why my close friends know, and I knew they would accpet me no matter what anyway. My human girlfriend is also a zoo, however, we didn't know this about each other until a few months after we met. It was actually sort of an accident that we did meet, but that is another story and I am not complaining now If I didn't have my horses in my life I would be a very depressed individual.Cydel
My college dormmate. We were playing truth or dare. I know, pretty immature for college girls. It was part of our first foreplay session, before we delved into our bi-curious realization. Well, she just made a wierd face and said "you're joking, right?" When I looked into her eyes and said "NO", she just about fell off the couch. I introduced her to my Parents Hound. We still talk several times a month Sadly I moved away from my home town, and rarely get back to see her, and her boys The only other people I've told, are my husband, and recently my close girlfriend. And all of You! This forum has opened my eyes to so much more! For so long, I believed I was one of the only women who enjoyed their dogs. I was so wrong! Thankfully SueZ
In my case, it's too dangerous for me to tell the way I feel about animals, for the reason it could mean expulsion from my career (Veterinary Medicine), and the absolute destruction of my whole life (conservative family... I'd suffer a slow and painful death ).So I'm happy with my "second life"... Though I haven't had sex with animals (well...yet), I share a deep love for them comparable to that felt towards any human family member (maybe more... that's why I choose Veterinary Medicine over Human Medicine).To all those who cannot share their "Zooness" with their friends/relatives : " Don't get discouraged!, as long as our animal friends share their lives with us, we won't feel alone, ever! " Just a thought. Dan.
It is risky business revealing this kind of information, but I do. I have told all of my friends and siblings and they all think it's weird but they do mostly accept it. I think as time goes on they get more used to my relationship. I have not told my parents but I think they have a slight idea of what goes on seeing as how I so openly display my love and attraction to my dog. I figured it would be easier to come open about myself rather than have somebody walk in and get the shock of their life(which has happened once before - SCARY!!)Besides my one friend catching me years ago when I was first experimenting, I started by talking to one of my friends about how much I cared for my dog. I tried explaining that I loved her more than he could ever know. He seemed cool at this point. I then struck up a conversation with him about zoophilia and, after some explaining, he seemed still cool about things. I do not know at what point he got all weird about it, but he did. He started flippin' a nut and distanced himself greatly from me (even though we lived together) - We eventually were cool again, but to this day we haven't been nearly as close. I got depressed over him for a while, but I've move on. He was the only person I've known to ever reject my lifestyle. I try to be really open and keep no secrets from the people that I care about. If they cannot accept me for who I am then I don't need friends like that.
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Everyone knows I'm a furry.But I've only told friends that I like real animals.most are ok with it, a few are still good friends but they wont leave me in the same room with their pets anymore. Havn't found any to also be zoos yet.everyone on [EMAIL REMOVED - USE THE PRIVATE MESSAGE SYSTEM] knows i am...its pretty much a running joke yeah, anyway...i dont hide it, but i dont advertise it either.i'm hoping that eventually the zoo community will be able to be as accepted as the gay community, but for the time being, i'm staying more/less in the closet.
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No, these are feelings I keep to myself. As stated by many poster before me, revealing something of this nature is risky. The world can be cruel, and generrally have predjudices against that which they do not understand.
greetings people..wow, i never knew there were so many zoos... though i suspected after several secret polls in the past suggest 2% of the uk population have fantasized/indulged or are active zoo's. well ive never told anyone, accept a zoo girlfriend , but that was ageas ago..my thing though is zoo scat.. so im definately not telling anyone! lol.
I told my husband shortly after we split up that I had been coming on here and posting pics etc, he seemed fine with it, even going as far as asking if we would have had some doggy fun together had we still been a couple. I still dont know if he really believes it but it was a great relief to actually tell someone for the first time in my life. Just a pity our relationship didnt work out, would have been great to have someone else involved too.Hopefully one day I will meet another zoo but in the meantime I am very happy living with my new dog.
I've never told anyone... Anyone who was sober anyways. Told someone I knew when I was drunk one night. He was drunk too (too drunk to drive) and I knew he was gay back when being so meant you kept it to yourself. Anyway, I'm pretty certain he thought it was all a drunken nightmare and never mentioned it to me afterwards. Didn't keep him as a friend too long afterwards but then that's the way it's always been for me.Anyway, I'm lucky to live remotely so I can do whatever I want without worry now. Most everyone I work with and hang around know what I've been through with my last marriage and don't say anything about why I don't date so I'm covered there. Still, if the right one came along I'd probably date again. I doubt I'll ever tell anyone in RL about my love for horses and my secret desires. Been a zoo all my life.... Didn't have much of a family and few friends, still don't. Wasn't well accepted by most but when I walked home at night I passed through a horse farm. The horses had no problem with me and would always want my attention. Seems they were more humane than humans to me. Respect turned to curiosity, the rest you all can figure out for yourself.
Ummm, I did as another topic said to do, when realeasing info to be open but not feal to strongly about it. Then joke about it alittle bit. I did that and these are the replies I got:thats sick, wrong, and ugh! That has to be worse than being Gay! ( ?!)Thats soooooOOOOoooooooo NASTY! ( )Umm, please stopp talking about that! ^^^^^these are some of the responses I got, but after A couple days of defendding the zoophile population, I thought it a lost-cause! I have a gay friend and I know some lesbiens. Even they wont accept beastality! I feel I will never tell anyone about my love! Hopefully there will be a day, because I really want to let it out! It's killing me inside. At least I found this Board
QUOTE (Bi_k9guy @ Aug 28 2005, 01:24 PM) I have let only a few select close friends know, and they're all cool about it Same here. ive only told 2 of my best friends, that was in the middle of the year, and they were cool with it, they still look at me when i mention me and a dog.
My Brother 'I think' Knew I was having relations with animals. I believe he told a few of our mutual friend. Due to there reactions, I have denied it. I had to go as far as to start dating humans again just to get them to leave me alone about it. Thats what you get when you have a bunch of macho, bone head friends. The worst mind is a closed mind....
I've never told anyone. A friends mom once caught me playing with her dog once, and she was cool with it, and a friend and I used to download f/d/h porn and laugh about it, but I never got the impression that he was into it. A recent episode of Boston Legal addressed the issue with a story about a woman who wanted her marriage of 20 years annulled because her husband loved their cow and had been caught having sex with the cow. I was watching this with my wife, and she expressed her displeasure with the idea and said she'd divorce me if I ever told her I was into cows.She didn't say anything about mares specifically, but I suppose it extends to them as well. Too bad. Maybe after the kids are gone I'll let her in on it. For now no one in RL does or will know.
I try my best to keep my activities a secret. The city I live in is like Christian HQ, a church on every corner, and 4 local "church" channels on TV. If my activities were to become known, I would probably be either burned at the stake, or run out of town by an angry lynch mod.However, one of my younger brothers and my best friend know that I watch Zoo movies. They think it's gross, and they often joke around about it when we rip on each other, but they don't know I participate.The only person who DID know was my late Aunt. She was really cool and open minded about it, so much so that she let me continue to dog sit for her when she would go out of town.I currently have no plans on letting anyone else in my life know, but I do hope that someday I can find that special someone who will accept my lifestyle when I decide to let them in on my secret.
I tell everyone I am a furry and hint others that I am a zoo. My good friends know and they will joke around with me about it. I am proud to be a zoo. I have a few pins on my backpack that hint to me being a zoo and furry.It is risky though to tell others that you are a zoophile. Not everyone can be cool with it. I haven't told anyone in my family about it even though some think they have an idea. I know my family would freak out big time about it.
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Are you Kkkkkkrrrrrrraaazzzeeeee those around me already think I am sick and perverted because I am qqqqquuuuuueeeeeeerrrr and go out of their way to switch me over. They find out I am curious about zoo, I shutter to think would happen
Well, lets see here, my brother walked in on me while i was having relations with my doggie, then went and told my mom, so they know. Ive told a handful of my friends, but they were pretty odd to begin with, looking at different types of porn (cartoon, furry, etc) and they totally except it. Id like to tell the world, but id better keep it pretty much a secret to save my reputation from people that are "christian". I love this site, i can talk to everyone here about it freely.
I wish I could let people know I'm 'that' way. If I did I don't think I'd see the light of day again tho. I know for sure I'd never see my friends family again. No one around me would accept it.
No one knows about me. My family would absolutly DIE if they found out.One of my roomates almost walked in on me once but he deosn't think about that kinda stuff so he had not clue (it was a little finger fun so it wasn't too hard to get out of the ackward pos.)Now my girlfriend has a deep affection for animals...one of the many reasons I fell for her. But of course I don't expect her to feel about animals the way I do. Course she made the first zoo comment...so I am gradually getting a feel for her...no pun intended.I once told her I was looking up horse mating pics online and she wanted me to send 'em to her...but she kinda played it off. Can't push the issue to much. I'de told her I thought watching animals mate was interesting...she agreed but still was kinda resistant to admiting excitment over it. And she prefered pics of...."me" over the pics of the stallions.She's recently made the comment (jokingly) that her mare might likd me to mount. So I'm kinda thinking she's secretly a zoo or is a zoo and just hasn't had that apipheny that I had. But either way...I'm still assuming she's not really a zoo. Great gal, gotta open her eyes slowly...too quick and all that light'l hurt. Course...there's always a really really good chance she's not a zoo at all. *sigh oh well
I have never discussed it with anyone outside of forums like this or on some of the old zoo talkers that don't seem to be around anymore.I do own a Zeta pin and have worn it out on many occasions, however no one really has any idea what it means and very few have aksed. They just make a comment like nice necklace or something along those lines. Now with wearing this, I do stand the chance that someone, most likely another zoo will know what this means and that would be cool, but it also could be the authorities, so I am always careful to avoid an accurate description of what it stands for.
I've told only the people I know are bi and strange. I also told a vegan and a vegetarian.Every time always required a good half our of explenation and debate *sigh*. But they finally come to realize what I mean by that there are people who just f*** and rape animals, and therer are people who actually love their animals and would never mean anything wrong. Also, the fact that there seems to be a strong empathic bond between me and my dog. I can think something and she'll do it. Like this one time I needed a pencil, she ran and got it for me while I was looking for one.Theres a lot more to animals than people realize. Thats why I love them, they actually communicate feelings so much better.
told my gf at the time that i was zoo and she went nuts apsolutly resulted in me moving awayand having to cancel our wedding since joining here have told my close curcil of friends and they are fine with it and sometimes like to look at some of the pics and clips
I have never told anyone about me being Zoo. But i think some people know that i am. My friend found some Zoo porn on my computer and i just tryed to play it off but i think she knows. Other than that i am vary discrete about the hole thing and now i hide my pic. and movies alot better. No more putting them on the desktop. I hope one day i will find someone that has the same love for animals as i do to tell them.
I myself have my friends know about myself and my canines. i have also told my family about it. At first i was quite worried about how they would react to it, but they took it quite well and accepted it.
telling my friends is not something i considered until 1 week ago.until i found this forum i honestly believed i was the only one! i will never tell my family and have no desire. i may, eventually, tell a few of my closer friends but not just yet.right now i am determined to find people that think the way i do...feel the way i do. if they knew from the start then i don't have to worry about having a heart attack trying to tell them!hehe.
Strange isn't it - a few years ago my father hinted that my family wouldn't be offended if I got a mail order bride (something I personally wouldn't be comfortable with) because they'd rather that than see me alone all my life, yet I'm terrified that they'll find out how I really feel about dogs. Anyone who knows me knows I like dogs more than people, so can it be that much of a leap to accept that it's "Love" not "like"? If I told anyone it would be my sister, but I don't think even she could handle it.If it wasn't for this forum I would never be able to share how I feel with other humans . Thanks for being here folks
QUOTE (Deso @ Dec 5 2005, 06:17 AM) But they finally come to realize what I mean by that there are people who just f*** and rape animals, and therer are people who actually love their animals and would never mean anything wrong. ummm -because someone is not "in love" with thier animal doesn't make them loveless - or rapist - there are members here with all different types of interest and involvement - and to suggest that thier motives are less than noble because they differ from yours is -well - quite unacceptable - mind your manners!
QUOTE (southflorida @ Dec 9 2005, 02:50 PM) QUOTE (Deso @ Dec 5 2005, 06:17 AM) But they finally come to realize what I mean by that there are people who just f*** and rape animals, and therer are people who actually love their animals and would never mean anything wrong. ummm -because someone is not "in love" with thier animal doesn't make them loveless - or rapist - there are members here with all different types of interest and involvement - and to suggest that thier motives are less than noble because they differ from yours is -well - quite unacceptable - mind your manners! I guess I should have made it in reference to the physical injury caused when people don't particularily care about what they may be doing when they engage in animals less able to be engaged with.There are people who do chickens, which results in their death. Thats who I'm reffering too. If those people should be defended, then obviously this forum's rules are quite contradictory.But I think you were refering to people who like cows sexually, but wouldn't form a bond or anything and would like to just get it off for the moment. If you're that kind of person, kudos to you, and no insult intended.Otherwise I'd request that you would refrain from injuring and possibly killing animals while expressing yourself. [request being the operative word, as no one can tell you what to do].If you fealt offended by what I said, and you're of the respectable group of just sexual interest group; My appologies.
I personally havent let anyone know about my true feelings, I am not sure what their reaction would be. I make jokes all the time though, and two of my friends make jokes too I wish I could tell them but... you know the rest. One ever refers to me as the beastiality man, now I want to correct him but then I would get all these accusations, so I just lie back and smile BEAST FORUM IS FAMILY[B][U]
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My current girlfriend knows and is okay with it, so long as I don't choose animals over her lol. My friend ed knows he caught me with his pit bull, he isn't into it but likes watching me with our dogs. they both know I am bi too so they are cool with it as long as me or the dogs don't get hurt. I think my sister might know I am a zoo and she might be too or zoo curiuse. Parents don't know and some of my other friends wouldn't understand even being bi. Yeah this site is friggin sweet and the chat is cool when it works. Thats me too have to tread carfully around some of my interests.
No my family does not know. Just like they don't know I am in the BDSM Lifestyle too.
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QUOTE (Deso @ Dec 10 2005, 09:25 AM) QUOTE (southflorida @ Dec 9 2005, 02:50 PM) QUOTE (Deso @ Dec 5 2005, 06:17 AM) But they finally come to realize what I mean by that there are people who just f*** and rape animals, and therer are people who actually love their animals and would never mean anything wrong. ummm -because someone is not "in love" with thier animal doesn't make them loveless - or rapist - there are members here with all different types of interest and involvement - and to suggest that thier motives are less than noble because they differ from yours is -well - quite unacceptable - mind your manners! I guess I should have made it in reference to the physical injury caused when people don't particularily care about what they may be doing when they engage in animals less able to be engaged with.There are people who do chickens, which results in their death. Thats who I'm reffering too. If those people should be defended, then obviously this forum's rules are quite contradictory.But I think you were refering to people who like cows sexually, but wouldn't form a bond or anything and would like to just get it off for the moment. If you're that kind of person, kudos to you, and no insult intended.Otherwise I'd request that you would refrain from injuring and possibly killing animals while expressing yourself. [request being the operative word, as no one can tell you what to do].If you fealt offended by what I said, and you're of the respectable group of just sexual interest group; My appologies. I wasn't speaking for myself - as a moderator I was speaking for the forum and it's members - we have CLEARLY outlined the acceptable definitions of "zoo" and "beasty" in the taboo thread in the stickies section and it's not up for debate -go read it I thought I made my point clear in my first post - but certainly I will make it crystal - because someone is not "in love" with an animal doesn't mean they are there "just to get it off for the moment" as you suggest - I contend that MOST of our members 'LOVE" animals even if they may not be "in love" with an animal like a zoo exclusive... I think the forum does a VERY good job in making people who have selfish intentions who would harm an animal quite uncomfortable and unwelcome - so your comment really doesn't apply to our membership -thus it remains un-necesary and unappropriate... once again your tone seems to be degrading of non exclusives: "if your that kind of person" "Otherwise I'd request that you would refrain from injuring and possibly killing animals while expressing yourself" as though this is what an active but non exclusive would do -and "you're of the respectable group of just sexual interest group" -there are forums available for exclusives who think they are superior -I can assure you that this is NOT one of them - our members - ones who are completely novice - just curious - whatever involvement level - or non involvement level are ALL valued the same on this forum - and ANYONE who doesn't like that will be shown the door...I suggest you let this go
No, I don't let anyone know, and no one will know. They would find it discusting and disturbing. But to me it's not a matter of whether them finding out or not (although I would prefer no one knows), for me it's just that I believe this is my private time, my private thoughts and fantasies. I believe if I don't want to share this part of my life with anyone else then I won't. This I will keep to myself.
The only person I would care to mention the matter to is my fiance, and he knows I certainly like watching zoo movies. ^^;; We've both watched them together and I think he likes them as well, considering his reaction. Since I have a thing for cats, and he knows this I think explaining to him that I enjoy feline company on a more...intimate level wouldn't surprise him too much. I am more interested in him anyway and he knows that. He's been hinting at getting more playful and trying new things, so perhaps if we ever get a dog or a cat (my cats are now with my mother, I hate it!) we might try having some fun with them.Oddly enough, I would only want a male dog, or a female cat (all my experiences with cats have been female)...so that makes me a bi-sexual-multi-critter-zoo with tendancies towards humans. ::laughs:: Now throw on top of that that I also think I'm a gay man on the inside and suddenly we have...me. x3I'm certain my mother (who is a baptist preacher) would hate me forever if I told her and my dad...he's a very sensitive guy, but I don't think he'd really understand, he'd probably try to, but I'm pretty sure he would be happier not knowing...besides, who the hell tells their parents their sexual fetishes?! "Hey Dad, just like to tell you that it turns me on when I'm all tied up!" or "Mom, I thought I should let you know that I'm a big fan of leather". Why should I tell them I like animals on a sexual level? I like humans too, mainly my big bear of a fiance. Sorry if enjoying sex with humans before animals makes me less a zoo...this is probably the only place I can talk about it...so yeah...I'll be over here now.
don't be sorry - this forum is open to ALL no matter what the involvement level or interest - thanX for taking the time to share with us
Nope never told anyone and I probably wont either.
Even my family knows.
I've been accused but I've never confessed if I was to be ask I would say -if I answer yes- you would belive me- if I say no- I would not be belived so I dont say or tell
never told anyone but i must say there was a follow i was falling for that i almost told, but he got busted for alot of stupid things, and i have lost track him
I've seen this Topic on the first page many times in the past, but never know quite how to answer it....Do You Let Any One No Your ZooI never really had a reason to tell anyone yet, I think. Maybe if somehow I had a way to know someone else was a Zoo' themselves, maybe. But I've never met anyone who is (in person) so I really don't know how I would react if this ever came up.Tell you one thing though, until I found the BeastForum, I've never really knew for sure there were many others who has a special relationship with their own mates as I do with my Muffin.....to me it was sorta like that question "is there life on other planets".....I did not know for sure of any other Zoo's, but I also could not think that I could possibly be the only one, too. Well, this great forum has finally answered that question for me! Again, as to letting anyone else know. After being with and taking care of my Muffin Mare for over 17 years, there has to be several people by now who at least suspect something more than me owning a horse 'cause I enjoy riding alot. Has anyone ever asked me direct or even hint at with a comment or maybe a joke? I really can't say. Guess its sorta like this story of "The Kings New Cloths"....everyone knows the King is running around the kingdom naked, but no one wants to come up and say that to his face....some probably know I'm a Zoo', but never had anyone make any comments to me about it.I can say this, there are many, many times when I came over to see Muffin and go to the field to bring her in to the barn. Every time she would come right over to me, I then give her a kiss on the face and then a big hug and many times Muffin would immediately go sawhorse with tail raised, winking and squirting while I'm giving her that big hug. I'm sure there were many people who were watching in the past while this was happening so I can not see how this can all be a big secret on how me and my mare feel about each other There is one thing I really like everyone here to know. Since I found this fourm about five months ago (gee, has it been that long already! ) this place has helped me to understand more this very special relationship I have with my Muffin. I feel even closer to her than I had the last few years we have been together.....I feel blessed and cherish evey moment I can spend with her and it is the best feeling in the world to know that I am giving her all the love and best possible care that anyone can give to a horse.THANK YOU EVERYONE!
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When I was a teenager and became more and more aware of my own sexual orientation, I first felt very lonely and was afraid I would never be able to tell anyone. Until one day, ten years ago, one of my friends said: "If I tell you my strangest sexual fantasy, will you tell me yours?" I said: "Sure.", and he went and said something that wasn't very strange at all. So I was nervous and reluctant to spill what I had to say, but after a while came out to him, with a thorough explanation of my views and feelings of it all. He found it fascinating, and I was totally euphoric, because he was happy to discuss it with me. After this, I started 'coming out' to more and more of my friends, until I had told about 10-15 people, including my brother. I had a few 'bad' responses of the kind: "Okay, it's strange, I accept it, but I don't want to talk about it." Aside from those responses a lot of my friends were interested in discussing it. I even outed myself to the guy who was my boss at the time, and he came out to me as being gay at the same time. That felt very strange, and both of us were nervous like hell. We are still very good friends, even though I've had another job for 8 years.Shortly after all this, I found the online world of zoophiles, and made enough RL zoo friends that I did not feel the need to come out to more of my non-zoo friends. I guess you could say that I am addicted to discussion and conversation, which is why I am happy for forums like these.I am not out to any of my current co-workers, and I don't think they'd take it well. I am not out to my parents either, and I am terrified of how they'd react. Unfortunately, I think they might suspect something, because I have never had a human partner in my entire life. I can feel a deep non-sexual love for human beings, but I fail to conjure up any kind of attraction towards humans, so I've lost some good friends in the past due to not being interested in their sexual advances.But my passion and fascination for animals is very much out in the open, I just don't know how many people would draw the connection that I love animals so much that I also find them sexually appealing.I would want my parents to know, but at the same time, I fear their respone so much, so I'll probably remain in the closet to them until they have passed away.
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Don't worry Svansfall, you are among friends here that do understand your true feelings. Thank you for sharing your story with us...and to the Beast Forum new member.
Please don't tell. Keep it to yourself until you run apon the right one. And you'll know if they are the one. But for now keep it to yourself.
No just between my Wife and Me.
Svansfall's experience is much like mine, which is kind of interesting. It's always really surprising to me just how few people actually care enough to get upset about it. I'd almost be more afraid of telling people I just like wangs. The only place I've ever had a strong negative reaction in my whole life is on the internet, which is kind of funny, since the internet is where I went before I was out to find greater acceptance and friendship than I was capable of in real life.
Got really pissed one night and was very deprised with life in general and told my female friend my inermost secrets of my past. When I phoned her the next day I was told by her mother that she was gone. Several days later she returned and it seamed like half the people in her town knew about my past. So my advice is if they tell you maybe you can tell them otherwise keep your mouth shut, you can joke about it but never admit to anything.
I am so sorry to hear that Zoosexual, I think that very reason is why i will never tell anyone, ever. Maybe if I am in a relationship with someone who is also beast/zoo and I "discover" it somehow, or they admit it to me, but how likely is that to occur? Like a one in a million chance? So never, I am a very private person, and I don't like people knowing too muhc about me, if people know you deep inside, then they can use that information against you someday. Not going to happen to me! Shamedgirl
I once let a male lover (I am female) know when I was in college. I picked the right guy, too. He really got off on it. We shared. We would both masturbate dogs, get their knots out, lick their pretty red penises then he would help the dogs mount me. I like lying on my back with my hips propped up on pillows, so I could lie there getting pounded while my human lover kneeled next to me and stroked himself. That was really hot! Then, when the dogs stopped pounding and stood over me, still deep inside me spraying me with all that wet heat, I would suck off my boyfriend. That was a Rush! Sucking on a man while fucking a dog! Way cool! Then, when the dogs would pull out I would make him suck and lick all the dog cum out of me. I would call him a "slut" and "dog cum lover" and stuff like that. It made him even hotter! Then I would let him f*** me, and the whole time I would tell him he was getting sloppy seconds from a dog. That made him hot, too. We lived together for two years and shared all kinds of dogs, but then he graduated and had to move away. We stayed in touch for a while, but then we lost touch. I wish I would have married him. I tried to approach the subject with other men, but I could always tell that it wasn't going to be well received. I finally gave up sharing. I've had a dog ever since. I married a guy who travels a lot...thank God! He is great guy and a so-so lover, but nothing matches the fun I get with my dog (and two neighbor dogs). I wish I could share with a man I trust and love, but since I can't I still can not give up such hot, exciting and fulfilling sex. Besides, I can have a three dog orgy and nobody knows or cares but me, so secrets aren't so bad, but I still want to share. 'Guess that's shy I found this forum.
Only 3 people know about my activities. My husband, my closest girlfriend and her husband. My girlfriend and I are both bifems, and we've become very close. Our hubbies are also good friends now , however they are both strickly heterosexual.
QUOTE (far2wild2tame @ Dec 22 2005, 12:46 AM)I once let a male lover (I am female) know when I was in college. I picked the right guy, too. He really got off on it. We shared.. I tried to approach the subject with other men, but I could always tell that it wasn't going to be well received. I once was lucky enough to have a hot and sexy girl who, like you, was into K9 sex. Your story reminds me so much of all the things we did together with her furry lover. It was a totally sensual experience and one that I now miss alot. Unfortunately she had to move to another state and we just lost track of one another. I have my memories, of course, but I sure wish I could create new ones. Thank you for sharing your story with us. I hope you will tell us more as time goes by.Eagle
I have never told anyone, nor do I plan too. I am a very private person and don't see that what I choose to do is any of their business. Sort of along the lines of "gentlemen don't kiss and tell" sort of thing, since I don't share stories of human lovers with any friends either.
the only person that knows my passion for animals in my boyfriend and he is just as passionate about it all too. perfect for each other, but think we would ever be able to tell anyone else that is close to us. thats why i love beast forum we can talk openly and we wont be judged but helped . by very friendly people which is love because i love to talk and i talk ALOT ! so be warned hehehehehe and merry xmas everyone xxx
No it does not seem like something family/friends would understand you know.
The only people I've gotten to the point and actually told were other zoos I've met online or in person. I've tried telling a number of girlfriends through the years, trying to feel them out about how they've felt on the subject, but having never gotten any positive feedback I just let it slide. I've considered telling some family members(I think my brother probably has a clue) but I just figured it wasn't worth the possible troubles. I've had a friend who was caught, arrested and totally ostracized by his community and I just don't need something like that. I've had friends who are zoo, who have posted private material of mine on the net although it was meant for their eyes only so I'm pretty careful about who I trust these days.There is just too much that can happen, and once the wrong person knows it's too late. I know it probably sounds like I'm a little paranoid, but I figured it's better to be safe, then to have my dogs taken away from me. Friendship, even close ones can break up, and the word to the wrong person could haunt you for years
Ty all for the great words what a shame we have to hide how we feel in a world they say is open minded. A BIG 10 to all the great people of the Forum.
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I don't know if this is the right place for this or not, but I recently started dating a man who doesn't know, and I don't know how to talk to him about it to see if he'd find it well-received...how can you know?
I told a close mate about 2 years ago... i ended up blubbering as i was telling her... as i thought it was such a huuge weight to get of my chest... but the look on her face when i told her...In the end about 6months later i said it was a fase and that i didn't like it any more... and that i thought it was horrible... Never again will i tell people... I like my secret anyway.. Although i have told a Very close mate... we were drunk and i blurted it out and she is so cool about it.. she even said that when she was young she had a little fun with her golden retreiver, but she just refers to them (horses and dogs) with big cocks and its ok to look... lolshes mentioned that shes not into it as much as myself.. i have strong feelings about it... and i will NEVER tell anyone else... infact its been aggggeeesss since i brought up the subject to my very best mate i like to ignore it. unless she says sumthing...
Only two people know that im a zoo and they are both ok with it
QUOTE (knottybbw @ Jan 23 2006, 02:39 PM) I don't know if this is the right place for this or not, but I recently started dating a man who doesn't know, and I don't know how to talk to him about it to see if he'd find it well-received...how can you know? Maybe you could bring it up subtly like your asking him a question targeting the group your in while pretending to have no afflitiations with that group until you can gauge the reaction. Perhaps bring up something that happened on the news and talk about that and see where the conversation goes
Only one person that knows me knows that I have zoo intrests. My wife. I have wanted her to know for a long time now, but have been afraid to come out to her.That was the hardest thing I ever did.I told her on our family vacation last September in Florida.We had just done a swim with the dolphins. I told her that night that I was fantasizing about her having sex with the dolphin we swam with. A 9-1/2 foot 600 pound alpha male I am very thankfull that she is not only accepting, but also recently active with our female golden.I have just told her about my cravings for male horses and my actual horse encounter before we met.In fact I have shared several of the downloaded images and movies from this forum and other locations with her just in the last two nights. She seems to be more into dolphins and dogs but does seem to be interested in bears and horses also. She is really into large dogs. The mastiffs and danes pictures showing them mounting women from behind and almost penetrating them really gets her hot. She is really turned on by the thought of a big dog spurting on her chest and in her face.I plan on introducing her to the Beast Forum and some other sights soon.I think soon Barn Swallow will be Barn SwallowsI'm glad the outcome was positive, even if it was not. I still had to tell her. I love her to much not to. Now I feel as if a huge weight has been lifted from me.I wish all of you who are contemplating telling their significant others, family and friends, good luck. The zoo community is growing all the time.More posts to follow. That's all for nowPS, I cant wait to show her the Bilara and Toro movie that Traps has posted.
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I told my husband 3 days before our wedding. I wasn't sure how he would react, but I needed to know he loved me for who I am. I also felt that beginning our life together with a lie and/or secret just wasn't the right thing to do. I mean that isn't what a marriage is supposed to be about, right? It would have broke my heart if he had rejected me, but I felt he had the the right to know, and I was ready to accept the consequences. We have been together for 15 yrs now, and our life together couldn't be happier. He accepted me for who I am, and never once asked me to change my lifestyle. At first it wasn't his thing and he just kinda left me to it, and didn't really pry too deeply or interfere. Over the years he has come to accept it more and even participates from time to time. I never shoved it in his face, or paraded it in front of him. Just gave him his space and allowed him to deal with it in his own way in his own time. I never hid it and was always open and honest when he had a question or anything. This approach may not work for everyone, but it has worked wonderfully for us. My best friend also knows. She isn't a zoo, but she finds it intrigueing that I am. She is a little embarrassed to talk about it, but the subject does come up from time to time after a few glasses of wine. She is a life long friend. We have known each other for over 25 years. I didn't come out to her until about 5 years ago. She has never seen me do anything, and I wouldnt do anything in her presence out of respect for her. I never bring it up, but I also am honest with her when she does.
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no its not worth the trouble it can cause. both with hatered or suspision,there are only 3 or 4 people in real life who know the truth,at least of the parts i allow, as what happens between me and critters is our business no one elses.of course i do make alot of earthy refances to others i,m know or am close to about zoo or beast issues but they all think i,m joshish them, actually its a test to see their viiews and most are toclose minded to want to reveal my selfto like thathowever if you saw me with any dog or horse, and coulr read the body lanauge of the intamacy of the contact even thou it appears normal , a zoo could see itwas more.of course all those who know me know i have no hang ups about letting a dog lick or kiss my face etc)))anyway my view better to keep it quietHB58
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It's really dawning on me these last couple of days my up bringing and young adult life must have been really odd. I've never bothered my whole life to keep it secret from anyone except for professional reasons. I realize most of the conversations I've had were half or all in jest, and my friends were probably a lot more crude then most, but I've never hidden it. I assumed we just don't talk about sex including heterosexual and masturbation, and when it was O.K. to talk about it, anything was fine. I knew in the past few years I was outside my element, but I didn't know how much. Is it really that taboo in western, civilian culture? I can see it's out of place, and I never wanted people watching and such anyway. Is this true with all forms of sexuality, or just us? Are you talking they might make comments in the breakroom and rib you a little, or are you talking about burning your house down, men in sheets with pickforks and torches? I'm starting to get a little nervous. Of course, like I've said before, out of politeness, I don't talk about it. I always knew it was taboo. I'm just not sure how big of a taboo yet.
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Can't say that I do. People around here aren't too understading. All just the same stereotypical people who live their same drone lives day in and day out. I've only told one person about it ever, and he's not saying anything. Though aside from here, I doubt I'll tell anyone else other than my wife in due time.
no i have not told anyone. Not for my lack of wanting to, I do. I just dont have the right person i can confide in. That is a large reason i keep comming back here.
Well, I don't go around preaching it but I am very proud of my lovelife-lifestyle and I won't hide the truth about me if someone genuinely asks out of curiosity.It is a tough thing to do, that is for sure.When I first found out I was "zoo", I didn't dare tell anyone.Then, as I got older, I felt like I was always having to hide in my own world and it hurt that I couldn't share such a wonderful and emotionally satisfying life with friends and family.I started hinting at it by asking friend's different questions like "What do you think about people who love animals so much that they would make love with them too?" and "I saw a wild video with a woman and a dog... what do you think of that?".Needless to say I got alot of laughs, some snears, and many asked if I did it too.Well, like I said, I won't hide the truth about me so I told on myself to alot of friends.Most of them I found out were not real friends at all because if someone is a real friend, they don't become an enemy after years just because they find out a small piece of info on you later. True friends will like you for who you are, plain and simple. I got ridiculed by a few, laughed at by a few, even had to fight one or two but it still didn't change my feelings for my furry pals. Actually, I think it made my feelings stronger for them.My mother knew about me and Christy [a Tennessee Walker Girl Friend] and though she didn't like it at first, after I explained to her my reasons and the feelings I had, she understood. She may not have ever completely accepted it but I was her son and she loved me. Thanks Mom Anyhow, I lost many people who I thought were friends but I soon found other friends, friends who liked me for who I am and not who I do. Alot of them have said "I don't care, just don't tell me about it" and some have even thought about trying it themselves. but they all are ok with it.The hardest one I had to tell was my fiancee. When we met [online ], she had no idea and we were getting serious so I just came out and told her. I figured if she was to be a part of my life then she would have to accept all parts of it too. We have been married going on 5 years now I do not regret "coming-out-of-the-closet". Actually, I have found it a useful tool in some ways, especially when it comes to firiendships.I am very very proud of being a pet-lover/zoo... it has changed my life for the better and they deserve our love and admiration. Sorry... I love to write
I posted this a few weeks ago in a thread called What wWill Become of Us or something like that, it's ever so slightly out of context but pertains very much to this discussion. We ought to unite because we are in danger.Just have a look at an article linked in the latest beastletter:Call to ban bestiality gets Senate hearingPeople who have exotic relations with animals should face a felony conviction for animal cruelty, says a Washington state Republican senator pushing for a ban on bestiality. Sen. Pam Roach's bill was prompted by a widely publicized case in which a man died of injuries suffered while having intercourse with a horse.Read the full story at The Seattle Post-IntelligencerThe story:Call to ban bestiality gets Senate hearingBy MIKE BARKERTHE ASSOCIATED PRESSOLYMPIA -- People who have sex with animals should face a felony conviction for animal cruelty, says a Republican senator pushing for a ban on bestiality.Sen. Pam Roach, R-Auburn, is sponsoring the bill, which was prompted by a widely publicized Washington state case in which a man died of injuries suffered while having sex with a horse.The measure was aired Tuesday in the Senate Judiciary Committee.Washington is one of 14 states where bestiality is not explicitly banned, according to the National Conference of State Legislatures."Our laws are lacking in this area," Roach said. "People are coming from out of state to do this here. We don't need to have a mecca here for abusing animals."The issue made headlines in July, when a Seattle man died after suffering a perforated colon while having sex with a horse at a farm in rural King County.Authorities said Kenneth Pinyan was pronounced dead soon after companions dropped him off at a hospital.Prosecutors were unable to charge anyone with animal cruelty, but James Michael Tait, 54, of Enumclaw pleaded guilty to trespassing for unlawfully entering the barn during the incident.Authorities said Tait videotaped the act. He received a one-year suspended sentence, a $300 fine and community service.advertisingRoach's proposal would make bestiality a Class C felony, which is punishable by a maximum five years in prison and a $10,000 fine.Offenders might also be restricted from owning animals and could be placed into counseling. Anyone videotaping such acts also could be convicted under animal-cruelty laws."If these animals don't have the cognitive ability to consent, and that's the case, then we have to be protecting them," Roach said."That's one of the reasons we protect children; and while this is lower, it will still protect innocence from sex predators."Studies have shown a strong link between sex with animals and pedophilia, King County Deputy Prosecutor Daniel Satterberg said."It would be wrong to look at this as an animal-welfare bill," Satterberg said. "It's the kind of conduct that can escalate to where the offender can become a threat to public safety."The quest for animal protection has made for curious partnerships -- it's bringing together Roach, a rural conservative, and animal rights [SPAM] around the state.The Washington Farm Bureau, Washington State Grange and state veterinarians also have backed the bill. Nobody testified against it Tuesday.Pasado's Safe Haven, an animal-welfare group based in Sultan, first pushed Roach for the legislation. The veteran lawmaker, who owns goats on her family farm, immediately adopted the issue.Susan Michaels, co-founder of Pasado's Safe Haven, said her organization receives a few calls each year about animal sexual abuse."But before this, there was nothing we could do about it," she said.Michaels said animals can be hurt, killed or transmit diseases during the acts.Authorities said the Enumclaw farm involved in the bestiality death was well-known on the Internet. Investigators found hundreds of hours of videotaped evidence, but there was no evidence of injury to the horses involved, so no animal-cruelty charges were ever filed."This obviously wasn't just an isolated incident, and sadly, it's not the first time we've heard about it," said Inga Gibson, program coordinator for the Northwest office of the Humane Society of the United States. "Animal sex abuse has happened across the nation." ENDThe way they view a natural, loving, and as pure as anything sexuality is as a terrible crime. Comparing zoophilia to pedophilia is a farce. Claiming that our brothers and sisters, who reach sexual maturity far sooner than we do, are as ignorant as children is folly. But the world (and strongly America) removes sexuality from them, with spaying and neutering, with belittling thier simpiler ways as lesser in meaning than our own, even going so far as to claim that any expression of personality and emotion from them is us imposing it upon them, imagining that it's there but it's not, disavowing the truly undeniable fact that they too have souls.Can we unite? Can we (Americans at least) save ourselves from falling unjustly under a banner of extreme sexual deviancy? How? Admiting our affections to the common man is the same as saying, "hello, I rape children." They must be made to understand, positive zoophilia, not some simple fetish, but legitimate zoo-love, must be shown to them. Homosexuality's progressive acceptance is strengthened by it's presence in the media, in literature and films particularly, since television always seems to be regressions into extreme steriotypes. This too can be zoophilia, it may start as simple jokes (in fact we may be well into this stage), but it can indeed escalate into something more. It seems that we must begin a quiet presence, I wear my zetacreations zoo pin right along side my rainbow bar and inverted pink triangle on my backpack and hope daily someone will ask what it is. If anyone asked me if I was a zoophile, I'd calmly say yes and make my first opportunity to simply and politely educate them on the normalcy and naturalism of zoophilia. It's taken me a while to reach this point, my friends know that I'm a furry of sorts, not the same thing as a zoo of course, but they have reson to suspect, and if they asked me I can now say "yes." We broadcast on our own frequency, but we must broadcast nonetheless. I believe that the beauty of zoophilia is too great a thing to hide, all the more beautiful for true zoophiles to be prepared to share what they know with those that don't. We must be valiant, we must be honest, we must not live in a world of fear.
Oh no, as openminded as my family and friends seem I do know this is something on a scale they are not prepared to deal with. I've only told one person in confidence of my interests and only because she is sexually open and very curious as well.
i started getting into this about 15 years ago when i had my own computer and was able to go wherevere i wanted on the net in privacy with my own coupter. i was hooked then and had some money problems so when the computer became outdated, and the internet service became stale i didnt renue. durring this time i came back here for a few pics from friends computers and they poked fun. my fault, i shouldnt have done that from a compter that wasnt mine. currently times are muuuch better financeally, so i do what i please. however, i havent extanged any conversation because its tough here. how these people got to know eachother is betond me. please feel free to msg me. see ya arround maybe.
no here, wish I could, but feels to risky
I have a few girlfriends that I've told. they range from supportive and interested to not speaking to me anymore.
I have to be exremely careful who I tell for reasons I don't really want to go into.I have shared my lifestyle with others but only in the confines of a relationship and only when I was absolutely sure they would accept it (which they did and enjoyed imensely) and naturally when I knew previously of someones interest or participation. Current g/f has no idea and I will never tell her as I know it would not appeal her.For these reasons alone I am so pleased I found BF where no-one judges you and we all seem happy to share.
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Nope, definitely haven't told anyone...People I chat with online and a very small amount that I've met know, but only because we've met from here. Someday I'd like to be able to tell my friends but not my family.. definitely do want to marry someday who's supportive or wants to help or has their own pets.. even though I haven't experienced anything really, my love for animals is not just going to 'go away.'
I haven't told anyone but a couple of online friends who searched me out on here. I'm hoping to talk to my fiance about this as it's not going away and I don't want to hide it from him, I won't be telling my friends I know it would bother them greatly. Being from a small northern city things like this just "aren't done here". It's definitely a dilemma choosing whether to talk or not.
The only people that know are the woman that turned me onto it and a girlfriend who is also zoo. She just came out and asked. But then I don't advertise a lot of personal information anyway.
I have only out-right told one person, because he made a comment that he had no problem with it. So I told him, and found out that he was a zoo as well.I have jokingly made hints to a few people at work about it. Well, they were making the jokes thanks to this little scar on my head my little husky gave me. As well as a little "mishap" back in November about me "exercizing" with my sister's adult dog. I went into work the next day with my legs sore, and one of my coworkers thought I said "sexercize", which just made me literally fall to the floor laughing. A few days later, I told them the reason I was laughing so hard was because it was with my dog. And just this past Friday that same one made a joke about the scar, and mentioned that previous thing back in November. So my supervisor said "So, you like it doggy style, huh?" and that set me laughing even more. Once I could catch my breath, I said to them "Now what would you do if I told you everything you were teasing me about was true?" The supervisor said that she doesn't see anything wrong with it, as she married a "horse's ass" (her words). The coworker said "I would tell you to each his own, but would think of you as wierd", which they all do anyway. There's another person that I have hinted to about it, as she said that my "girlfriend is a real dog" and another supervisor said "she must be a real bitch", which made me laugh as well.I would say 1 person knows definitely, while 4 people might have a suspicion about it. None of my family knows.
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In truth it is actually a very difficult thing to talk about. As a young adult I hung around with a group of pals, one of which owned a dog called Carlo. They were collectively filled with too much testosterone and an inordinate curiosity about girls, so that drove our joint conversations. Carlo's claim to fame was that he liked to hump peoples legs. My buddies all found that hilarious. I found it erotic. I wished for a moment to be alone with Carlo, so I could touch him and experience him. I felt deeply sorry for him being ridiculed that way. He was deeply misunderstood, even if his "owner" claimed to love him, and if only I could look after him, I would have given him all the love he so richly deserved. But none of this happened. My buddies split up as their young adult lives took them to other parts of the planet after graduation from University and their testosterone-drive linked them to their respective (human) partners. I went on to find an appropriate partner (K9) with which to explore my erotic pleasures. I also found a girfriend but told her nothing of this. But I learned from this set of experiences that being Zoo is a closet lifestyle. My initial encounters were always deeply secretive and I almost always ended with a feeling of terrible guilt - as if I was flirting with the Devil himself.... Which is why I find the Forum so fantastic. I mean here we are a family - one of a larger group of like-minded people. That is truly amazing. I can now tell you all about the above, something not possible among my own closest friends and family. I no longer feel like evil incarnate and I can now regard myself as being "normal" (how boring!). Then, after many years of happy marriage, I decided to broach the issue with my wife. Tentatively I hinted at my earlier encounters, not giving much detail. To my great surprise I heard that she had also owned a small dog that her brother and his pals used to ridicule. They used to throw him a knitted jersey, which evidently used to drive him into a humping frenzy. Then they would roll around in fits of hilarious laughter. She would then fight with the boys, take the dog away and in private try to coax him back to a situation of non-frenzied tranquility by gently satisfying him in a dignified way. That started us talking and that is where we find ourselves today. Both dog lovers and happily married with many years under the belt. Stable, happy and self-actualized.
QUOTE (hot_not @ Mar 26 2007, 07:11 PM) Current g/f has no idea and I will never tell her as I know it would not appeal her. Further to my last post, g/f has now confirmed my suspicions.The other nite, whilst she was very frisky, she asked if we could watch some porn. Knowing what was in the vcr, I flicked it on just to guage her reaction (well she did ask). The scene that greeted her was a hot chick being DPd anally by a big Dane whilst using a vibro, actually pretty awesome scene.The reaction as I always knew was one of utter revoltion. Surfice to say I changed tapes and played the scene down. She mentioned how sick she thought it was again this morning when porn was mentioned on tv. Again i played it down as I don't really want to debate it with her. I will never mention it again but this morning my reply was quite tearse, I guess because its something I feel very strongly about. She has absolutely no idea I'am active in this scene and i see little to be gained by telling her. I am as I write this feeling slightly annoyed with myself for having to deny and hide my feelings.Guess the point here is be very careful who you share your secret with, and don't be to disappointed if you don't get the reaction your're looking for.Just nice to be able to share here on BF
i have let a pick of friends i have know im into dogs and they are cool about it and my gf and her friends are as well
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