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Hi all, I just have to say something.Theres good things in the world and one might say it's best to take advantage of the good things that comes to you, I agree but somethings should not be taken advantage of.Having sex everyday with your mate, if shes willing and you go for it everytime shes willing.It's not healthy to have sex every day.. It should'nt have to be done everyday.Why not spead time with your mate that does'nt have to evole sex everytime.If you having a willing animal, once a time like a real relationship is good. But everyday would not be good, sure it feels good but some things should not be done everyday.If sex is the only thing that keeps the relationship going, then you should not have a relationship.I'm not pointing fingers at anyone. It's just what I think on it, if you don't agree with me please keep it in a manor way.I wish to talk this over with you guys and girls, its hard to explane why it's not good but it's just a gut feeling it's not good to do so.This is my own opinon, please come forward and say your feelings and thoughts and opinons on this.Once again try to keep it in a manor and polite way.Thank you in advance.
If you are talking about sex in a relationship with a human mate (as well as animal), then I disagree. Me and my GF have been together for just over 8 years, the last 4 have been sex-free the time has gone so quick we have never really talked about it. I would love to have sex every day (at least once!) as long as we shared other interests too. God, now I'm depressed!
hey spirit youre so right..and i hope that anyone who truly knows me too..knows i dont feel that sex makes the world turn..lol it so doesnt..id rather fall in love a thousand times over than have something purely sexual. without love there is nothing.some of the best memories i have in my heart, are just watching my baby sleep, watching her nose twitch..seeing her wake up, giving her a nice meal, taking her for walks, and just cuddling with her and telling her how much i love her and thank whoever it is that brought us together. I truly love her!on the other note though..i guess i just get the impression that you sound a little bitter, and i truly mean no offense even if that isnt the case. be happy for everyones relationships, even if they do have sex every day..i see no harm in that. even if i dont have sex every day..it just happens when it happens, everyone deserves to be happy if they dont harm others in doing so, i know when i lost someone i loved so much, i felt everyone else was having fun, and i let that make me seem like i hated everyone who did have what i longed for once more.
Spirit,I have to disagree, but not totally... Sex shouldn't be the only reason you're in a relationship, unless you've established that ahead of time.But if you want to have sex, and your partner (of whatever species) is either excited about it, or at least receptive, then I think it's fine... I think you should spend time with him/her doing other things, too, but there's no "right" or "wrong" about sex...
Things in the world that are good for you and always should be taken advantage of, and some things should not be taken advantage of.Your friend is drunk and hes willing to give you his money, this is good for you and it'll help you alot, but you take advantage of the person cause you know if he was not drunk he would'nt give.Your friend is having a misserable day, and she was crying and feeling sad that she got dumped, shes willing to have sex with you. You take that chance, but you know if she have'nt been sad and all she should'nt.Somethings should not be taken advantage of and others should.Love is way more powerful then sex, why not teach each other to love, and not how to have sex.Once again, please keep in a manor and polite way. As I will.
Personally I would refuse both offers (even though it would be difficult. horny as hell and broke )But both chances would feel very different in the morning (cold light of day), I guess I'm not the kind of guy to take advantage of someone's weakness, no matter how tempting.
do you mean an animal to you has the same mentality as a drunk or someone depressed and willing to do anything? i dont get it..youre talking about taking advantage here..not about two willing creatures wanting to be together..i can imagine your point very clear if a guy just has sex with his dog every day regardless, and goes off without caring for them..thats wrong..but i still see nothing wrong with having sex every day between two lovers if they choose, nothing wrong with that at all. guess its all in personal perspective. i dont mean to be rude..so sorry if i seem that way..just my thoughts since im a bit confused.
Thank you all for posting, those were examples.I think this post is done. I'm sorry I ever posted this...
why..you got to hear what you seeked, nothing is ever wrong with that.
QUOTE (Spirit @ Apr 14 2004, 11:12 AM)Thank you all for posting, those were examples.I think this post is done. I'm sorry I ever posted this...Spirit I hear you struggling honey.... I hear saddness too.... Is everything okay?.... Babe for what it is worth I know what you are trying to say ....and I know its notcoming out the way you want it to... I can not explain it or say it any better than you can so I wont attempt to do it here.Wendy *worried about Spirit* ps....I will add tho in my opinion.... sex everyday... hell every hour if they want it is good for humans I applaud it when two people know and feel comfortable with their own sexuality to go for it..... i am not sure it is that way for animals.... I tend to believe not for the simple reason that an animal is not turned on by the mere site of a naked body....an animal does not know seduction....an animal responds out of sheer instinct....If a female dog knows that the best way to get your attention is by being sexual with you then out of her instinct to be a pleaser she will be sexual.....if a male dog smells a human being sexual he becomes sexual too .... A visual does not do the same thing to an animal that it does for humans. We should all respect the simplicity of an animal and not abuse that or interpret that to be something that it is not.
i do feel that way too wendy..i guess i feel this post is not so much about what everyone else does..but about feeling ok and accepting/understanding something in your own life, and trying to find some answers for it, and its something that no one can ever help you with, thats up to you, people and friends can only offer support and understanding but ultimately its yours to come to terms with. i wish you the best in your search..and i have never meant any disrespect..and i hope you know this.
None taken I can asure you, I'm just worried I might have started a flame war.. so I stop now before it really does.
Well my two cents worth on my end and the way things went on with me and my dogs. When I had my female with me, she would come up to me run her nose between my leg and turn around hold her tail off to one side and push back against me. I could not refure her, she was to damn beautiful for that. And that went on mostly everyday she wanted it, by asking for it. My male Samoyed I had he would have to go out and I'd tell him to go out and go potty so we can have sex. He would go out and go, come back in the house wagging his tail and back to the bed room he would go and be up on the bed laying down by the time I'd get back there. He'd be all spread out waiting for me to screw him. That was the only male dog that I knew or heard of that loved it up his ass every day. I'm not nor can I agree or disagree with you Spirit, I would have to say it would depend on the person and the animal. If the human is into it and the animal makes moves as to wanting sex then by all means satisfy the animals needes. If the human is in the mood and the animals is not, like a dog with it's tail between it's legs then don't mate with it at that time. Do it later when the animal is ready. To do it every day against the animals will and wel being then that a whole other ball game there and should never happen.I'm done.....
I have always loved reading about theenthusiasm your dogs have displayed with you in their desire to be sexual with you Wolfie.... thanks for sharing that.
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Spirit I don't wish to appear flippant but you wrote ..... "My Own Personal Opinon"Your use of the word Own, in context, is superfluous
Interesting... bump...
QUOTE (cohort @ May 9 2006, 11:02 PM)Interesting... bump...cohort, are you bumpin' topics from page 1000?
QUOTE (hambletonian @ May 10 2006, 04:10 AM) QUOTE (cohort @ May 9 2006, 11:02 PM)Interesting... bump...cohort, are you bumpin' topics from page 1000? Noooooooooo. Don't be silly.That was only on page um... 170.
he might be, but it is kind of interesting. Personally, I have sex every time I can. Of course, at my age, that is more when I can get it up. However, I have been married for a lot of years and I will give my opinion on a long lasting marriage. I think (and this is only a personal opinion), that there are two things that make or break a marriage. One is money and one is sex. I think a dire shortage of either will do a marriage in sooner or later. By money, I don't mean you have to be rich, or even well off, or even with your head above water. what I mean is one person spending all the time and yelling at mate when they spend a dime. I also do think it is hard on a marriage when you can't even see daylight and your always harping about money matters. Sex is the same way. I know some couples can go years without sex, but I think most men (and women) need sex--but it HAS to be both giving and receiving mutually. I think maybe sex brings a couple closer together than anything else in marriage (again only my opinion), after all, during sex both partners should be trying their best to please the other one. And yes, it is equally ok for one partner to just lay back and receive all the attention once in awhile, as long as it doesn't bcome a habit. Well, enough of this, I could go on and on about this subject and my thoughts on it.
I hate to be agreeing so much (because there seems to be less to talk about) but I see it the same way, as long as the couple's expectations are compatible, things hum along. It's when there's an imbalance that dissonance, frustration, and problems occur. If there's a "problem" regarding money or sex, and you feel like you and your partner are leaning in different directions you either need to get back in synch or call it a day.Besides, sex is always more frantic at the start of a relationship. The secret to a long relationship must be constant break-ups and reconciliations!
Agreed Mr. Duck!!
I think that this situation can go the other way as well. While too little sex could indicate a problem, too much could be just as bad. To be honest, I try to get as much sex as I possibly can- that's just the way I am But sometimes sex can be used by couples to cover up or ignore a deeper problem.
I suppose. So can kids. Who *hasn't* known at least one couple that had kids in order to fix the relationship? And how well did that work? But if it's between excessive sex and kids at the end of a relationship... give me excessive sex anyday! Maybe that should be my signature line?
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QUOTE (cohort @ May 10 2006, 05:09 AM) I suppose. So can kids. Who *hasn't* known at least one couple that had kids in order to fix the relationship? And how well did that work? But if it's between excessive sex and kids at the end of a relationship... give me excessive sex anyday! Maybe that should be my signature line? Yeah, the kids thing is something I didn't think about. It's just when I was reading this post, I was reminded of a past relationship I had. My boyfriend and I really picked up and started having alot of sex at the end of our relationship, and in hindsight, I'm pretty sure it's because we just didn't want to break up, and we didn't want to deal with the problems we were having.And I agree with the excessive sex anytime! Well, as long as it's healthy and fulfilling.
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QUOTE (Texas Jack 58 @ May 10 2006, 04:21 AM) he might be, but it is kind of interesting. Personally, I have sex every time I can. Of course, at my age, that is more when I can get it up. However, I have been married for a lot of years and I will give my opinion on a long lasting marriage. I think (and this is only a personal opinion), that there are two things that make or break a marriage. One is money and one is sex. I think a dire shortage of either will do a marriage in sooner or later. By money, I don't mean you have to be rich, or even well off, or even with your head above water. what I mean is one person spending all the time and yelling at mate when they spend a dime. I also do think it is hard on a marriage when you can't even see daylight and your always harping about money matters. Sex is the same way. I know some couples can go years without sex, but I think most men (and women) need sex--but it HAS to be both giving and receiving mutually. I think maybe sex brings a couple closer together than anything else in marriage (again only my opinion), after all, during sex both partners should be trying their best to please the other one. And yes, it is equally ok for one partner to just lay back and receive all the attention once in awhile, as long as it doesn't bcome a habit. Well, enough of this, I could go on and on about this subject and my thoughts on it. Words of a wise (experienced) man... Sorta like me!
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