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Well, i will start with why i have no one i can tell. I live in a very very whiye suburban town. No diversity and according to everyone here "there are no fags here". So anythingmentioning anything other than the "only have sex to create life afyer marriage" will get me shuned from everyone. On top of that i have a very strict italian catholic family. Any "taboo" would probobly get me disowned. Well here is the truth, i am a virgin, i have been on many dates and events with women such as prom dinner movies etc. I love the elegance of the female body and find it a work of art. Yet i always have the potruding thoughts of the male anatomy. i have had thoughgs of doing sexual acts with men and women loving each thought of both. Also i get aroused from dogs both male and female and horses once again both male and female. I am unable to pursue any of my curiosities and with the constant "gays go to hell" and "people who perform bestiality shouldn't live" talk in my town it gets aggrivating. my dog marley and i are very close yet he has been neutered so it isn't like i can pursue anything there. my parents always wonder why we are so close and i cant say that it is because i may actualy LOVE him. with all these thoughts floating around my head constantly and the way my town is frequently feel astranged and abnormal. what, in your opinion should i do. and sorry if it seems as though i rqmbled but itw the first time i have actually said anything like this so it feels pretty good to just vent somewhere i believe i wont be prosecuted.
Welcome to our group John. First thing to look at here, is it at all possible to move out of your parents home ? Find somewhere bigger and more to your liking. As for thinking about other males and animals as well as girls, that is all a natural part of growing up. Nothing to be worried about there. Unfortunately, if moving isn't possible, you will have to get used to the restrictions until it is possible to be on your own. Don't find labels for yourself and your sexuality, each of us is an individual and have different wants and needs. It is equally possible, after experimenting with another guy, you will decide that girls are more your interest. You are among friends in here and lots of others have had similar experiences so stay positive.
moving out is an option i would like to take but i need to get accepted to a college with enough money. i dont make enough to rent anywhere. its unfortunate case but im glad there is a place where all this stuff is accepted. i get enough crap at home for being the "anti-christ" just cause i came out as atheist. and thanks for the support.
Wow, my neighborhood isn't at all that bad. I can't say I fully understand but I am also bi/zoo. I say don't feel alone at all, there are plenty out there living life casually, just imagine going off to college elsewhere. (no offence to your town.) please just hang in there and know that we all here at BF got your back.
thanks mr awesome writer man. and trust me. i can not wait to get outa this town/state. nothin i like is here. no open minded people. there is no hardstyle scenes anywhere. hardly any metal. and way to many stuck up people. not enough people i can relate/talk too. which im sure will change with college
Welcome to our group.It's nobody else's business what turns you on, John. But I certainly would keep very quiet around family and friends.If you want to pursue your desires, your first goal should be to get out of that town and away from narrow-minded people. You can work on the rest once you're out of there.Good luck.LTD
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ive read the post where peoples family and or friends found out and i will gladly not tell anyone. to much to risk with very little chance of any gain. thanks for the advice and as soon as i can im out of this town
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Yeah, for now we should all keep this to ourselves. My own family would disown me.
To our group. Why not move to New Hampshire where the motto is "Live Free and Die Early" (lol). Of all the New England states NH is the best--I believe that beastiality is not even considered illegal there and people are much more free to do their own thing without being criticized. Not that I would tell anyone that you have zoo interests. Also, once you get to college, you're going to find a totally different and more accepting environment (unless you go to a strictly religious college). Good luck with it, and I wish for a good outcome for you.
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Yeah the one thing I can say for college is that you don't have to explain and don't end up like what I did up until that point. I was do easy going I let my family dictate my life. I still love them but told them just that, it's my life not yours, I love you but you have to let me be me.(well that's basically it, I'm a good writer not speaker. )Again good luck to you and chose your college right.
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a very good writer you are. and trust me i dont wanna go to a strict catholic private school. no way. ill probobly go to some sort of art school or somethin in history or somethin to do with environmental science. guessing those kinda schools are a bit more accepting.
Some days being bi is harder than actually being gay. While some people do not understand being gay, a greater number have a harder time with being bi. I can also understand being in a religious family and being an atheist as well. There is a lot of good information on a number of topics here. Welcome to bf.
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