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Hello everyone...I'm not sure how to go about this, but I guess this is the best place I could turn.I'm a zoophile. I have struggled with this for a long time in my short life, as I have with other parts of my sexual identity. I always found animals attractive, but not just in a sexual way, more in the way I'd love to spend all my time with one.Anyway, I thought I could make it a miniscule part of myself (which it should be) but that all changed last week. My friend lets me stay over his sometimes and he has a male dog called Toby, who is a Border Collie. I always sleep on the sofa so he's always alone with me. The first night there was a lot of "kissing", and he is a very eager male, but the week after...IT happened. I was mounted and had sex with Toby.Dod I enjoy it? Very, very much so, and the cuddle afterwards was lovely, but I am also scared. I don't know how to feel, like I always KNEW I was a zoophile but having intercourse with an animal really seals the deal, you know? I'm confused right now and don't know where else to turn for support.Thankyou,Kris =^-^=
Well not much I can say in the way of support except the following few tidbits. Your sexuality is largely you. Accept it as such; in the same way you accept that your nose is yours or that you have blue eyes. Once you stop fighting yourself internally you are in a much better position to control it, and it not controlling you. Which is what I think you are afraid of most. Being a zoophile does not mean you must rape animals. It merely means your scope of acceptance of partners widens to include animals. That is all. So in the end zoophiles/zoosexuals/beasties don't necessarily behave any different than your average human/heterosexual/bisexual/homosexual couples. Which just have four legged partners. That's all. So try not to let it worry you and try to be a good person.
Yes, I suppose you're right. It's just it went from being a fond idea to "OMFG I ENJOYED THAT WHAT DO I DO?" kind of scenario.
you can try to repress it all you want but it doesn't change the fact that, you've had sex with a dog, and you loved it. In the future you may have not so good sex with dogs; however all the bad sex in the world (probably) won't change the fact that you can definitely say that you love having sex with a dog.I convinced some friends to try it and they did, and they loved it and they also found themselves in the boat that you now find yourself in--confused about how they just enjoyed something so "wrong." Of course, having convinced them to try it meant that they had at least my support, but they were still a little bit confused. Long story short all of them were active at least for a time, and most are still active.
If you ever think your not normal...ask yourself. "what the hell is "normal"? Everyones got their kinks. (I'm not saying that zoophilia is a a kink, it's a way of life) Also ALL of this is YOUR business. I keep everything within this forum. Society doesn't take to kindly to zoophilia. People don't like what they do not understand. Even close friends would think of me as a freak if I told them. My parents would most likely disown me if I spilled my guts to them.Also don't be scared about any of this. You are among friends here.
We all have our own weakness and if we are not hurting or endangering someone else's pet why do you have the conflict or maybe it is just your upbringing. Relax and go for it if your pet other wise wait until you get your own companion.
The first time when we cross that beast threashold is a life changing experience wheather we are giving or receiving. I felt a lot of conflicting emotions when I did my first dogs - less so with my first time which was with a small male dog (I am male) but I can say he entered me and started filling me and without toughing myself - I had a hard massive orgasm all over the floor, I was rather hooked but still prefer smaller males, When I did my collie bitch the first time the "morning after" regrets were pretty strong - the OMG what have I done??? - I had penetrative sex with my bitch and we both enjoyed it! The regret did not last long, we mated again the next evening. My path was set - I was a confirmed zoo and I have never regretted finding that part of myself. Take care - live hard, love gently and always be yourself!
It look a lot for me to jump into the beast side. But I couldn't repress it anymore. regular sex got too boring for me. Just accept who you are you'll be a lot happier.
I'm struggling with it myself... I have yet to have sex with a dog (or any animal) but have been licked and loved it. I have yet to try again but want to. I'm gay myself and I didn't accept that until I was in my early twenties and now I'm in my late twenties and struggling with this. My human relationships have been failing left and right and I'm tempted to dive right in... but will I be truly happy with just a dog in my life? I often wonder..
Welcome to he forum...You shouldn't be scared, although most people outside of this forum aren't understanding, use his forum to let out your true zoo self. I was worried when i first released what i was into, i was scared. I then found this forum and gradually started to come out of my shell. Now I'm proud to be a zoo, my brother knows about me because of how accepting i became of myself because of this forum.There are a lot of friendly people to ask questions to and just chat to, If you accept yourself you can conquer everything.
Sounds like a classic case where you went with your heart, but your conditioned mind is repeating a bunch of stuff that you have been told over the years...rights and wrongs, etc. If that is the case you made a wonderful step towards trusting your heart over your head. The confusion is that you may be hearing inside you, two arguments...one from the heart, which is honest, and the other is from your head which is always conditioned to think a certain way by its environment. This dizzying mix of feelings and thoughts may come up many times and the internal conflict will continue until you accept yourself for who you are... My only advice is...don't get so distracted by the name "zoophile"..its just some letters that got put into a certain order and given a meaning by someone else. That's it. Its just a concept of the mind...nothing more.Just BE who you are...no labels.... just you.
If it's good for you and the dog, who cares what other people may thinks
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