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i toled my budes what i was when i was wasted.
Uh-oh. This one is going to be hard to get around.All I can think to say is that you were drunk and didn't mean it/was a joke or possibly don't remember saying that.Honestly I'm not sure you'll be able to get around this one easily if at all but I could be wrong.Best of luck, maybe someone else here can give you better advice.
I agree with Luvsdogs concerning telling your friends. I would chalk it up to just being drunk/wasted. Nevertheless, you have a great deal of support from this community.
Danm dude! - just one more reason I gave up the booze! Remember "Loose lips sink ships" has been around a long time. Best advice I could give is laugh it off to the drunk and lay VERY low for awhile. Consider going dry as if you let it slip once, you will do so again.
QUOTE (udpets @ Jan 31 2010, 10:41 PM) Danm dude! - just one more reason I gave up the booze! Remember "Loose lips sink ships" has been around a long time. Best advice I could give is laugh it off to the drunk and lay VERY low for awhile. Consider going dry as if you let it slip once, you will do so again. Pretty much like that.Get clean and stay that way. You've got some clean-up to do.
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QUOTE (dogbeader) i toled my budes what i was when i was wasted. Been there, done that, luckily got away with it. Only time it could have been dodgy was telling a friend of my ex GF's but he didn't really care, and didn't spread it about. Would I ever stop drinking and the rest. Not a chance on this planet i would. Though I think now to be so drunk I would tell people I would have to be so drunk i'd be unconcious so not too much worry of telling anyone anything. Though I have told nearly all my close friends anyway. Never had a negative reaction. When you know your friends well I think you can judge quite well if their reaction is going to be seriously negative for you. When your just bottling it up from everyone it makes it so much more likely your gonna let it slip sometime. I find that having a few people who know about it means its not something that ends up in the forefront of my mind ready to come gushing out. All depends how many people you told, if they really believe you, how good a relationship you have with them etc. Is impossible to give you any advice without knowing more details. Though not sure what you really want anyone to say anyway. Are you telling us because you want sympathy or advice. Or do you really not care that much and just felt like telling us you had told them. You never know it may open new doors for you within your group of friends. You may find they really don't care and so you have the oppurtunity to be yourself. Something that some of us (like me) find very valuable. If they are really against it then you have to figure out how your gonna get round the situation. Though I would say don't bring it up unless they do. Start making a big thing of reminding them all what you said and then saying you were joking may well just make you look more guilty. You never know they might not even remember. If you just stay quiet about it then they may well decide themselves you were just joking about.
Been there done that, being under the influence of alcohol has brought many a person undone. I wish you the best of luck with the rest of your life.
Maybe you could say that it was a dream that you had that was very vivid and while you were drunk you accidently portrayed as real. Good luck!
Claim you don't remember? Act like they're joking with you, kinda like the shaving cream in the hand, water on the face trick?And don't do it again. Play it very, very straight for a while.I hope things work out for you.Good luck,LTD
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Speaking from an unusual perspective here. Most of my friends (and I use the term loosely) are incredibly judgmental people. Others I don't trust as far as I could throw them. You might say, "hey Guth... get some new friends!" heh, probably right. I'm not very social, and friends are hard to come by for me. I know what I can and can't say and do around them, so with those boundaries in mind, at least I have people to snowboard with and such. Because of that, I'm pretty fortunate that while I do have a loose tongue when I'm drunk, I still haven't ever slipped up and told any of them I'm zoo. The only close friend I know in person who knows I am zoo, is also a member of this forum. He at least, is someone I trust very much. I did once get drunk and tell my little brother I was furry, and he actually despises me for it... go figure. Hates furries because he knew some in high school I guess, and harassed them relentlessly. He's not a very good person either, very judgmental, very cruel. No big loss there, I was sick of him mooching off me anyway.With those experiences in mind, I agree with Dirtbiker. I'd have to be drunk enough to be unconscious before I'd be drunk enough to say I was zoo. First person I told was my wife, and I was sober when I did that. Figured it was time to come clean.I guess my advice to you, is to learn from this experience, much in the way I learned from my experience with my brother. Just realize that you gotta be more careful. Hopefully this time it wont have too many negative consequences, and now you'll be prepared if the urge ever comes up again.
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I daresay this is a classic facepalm moment for you.Denying everything is just about all you can do. Just don't do it in an overly-defensive way, as that tends to set off red flags, too.Also, try and be more careful next time. Best of luck to you.-jeep
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