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hello everyone.. im very new to being a "zoo" as its called.. and im not exactly sure how to feel about it. ive always loved nimals and only recently has it turned into a sexual fascination. im not some kinda lustful horn ball who just wants to screw anyting with a reproductive organ.. animals just have something i feel is missing in people.. thats just me, and i cant even say for sure i know what it is thats missing. anyways, i was wondering if any of you could give me some helpful advice.. since alot of you are far more experienced then me.. how did you feel when you first came to realization of being a zoo? i thank you so much for you time and am forever greatful to any helpful advice you have to offer me.. may all be well with you all~ thanks again
Heya bablebaba, I have no idea whether or not this will help but since you asked I am happy to give what I can.I've never personally been an individual who is big on labels. The only real thing that changed when I first discovered this side of my life was the prospect for a deeper relationship with animals. I had always more or less been around animals growing up as a child. It wasn't until I moved into the city to study that I was around humans more then animals. A few relationships were developed during that time. They were good but there was something missing. It was an emotional something as well beause in my naievety I didn't know sex was a possibility with animals back then.This time away from animals didn't last long as I wound up sharing a flat with my closest friend when we both got our first real jobs after school. He introdued me to the sexual side of animals with his girl and it was an experience that was really beautiful. I had an adoration for his girl for some time before that. Something that is difficult for one to put one's finger one... whether it be the peace, the in the moment raw emotion, whatever it is, there is something special about them.Anyhow, back to the thing about labels. I recall questioning morality for all of 10 seconds after I had sex with her. As soon as I recalled her body language, the way she asked for it, the way she wanted it and not to mention her actions during the act any bad or negative feelings went away. Some time after this I discovered that there were some words that were meant to desribe what I was/am. At that point as now the words didn't really have much meaning.I would have to say try your best not to get caught up in the very human need to categorize and label everything and definitely do not put too much importance into one aspect of your life as that is all it is. You may be zoo, you may have discovered that animals turn you on but this is far from all you are. My point in saying this is that it shouldn't change anything. It is a revelation but in reality it is something that has been in you in one capacity or another for a very long time, only now you can see it. I have been around now for some time and have seen as well as experienced a lot of shit in my life and the only thing that keeps me sane and keeps me from disolving into a nervous wreck is the knowledge that I have I have lived to not regret anything and have followed my heart and emotions. It was an incredibly beautiful thing when I realized my seuxal attractions and acted on them. Incredibly beautiful and has been ever since.
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I think Lands said it well, and I can't improve upon it. Good luck and enjoy!
I think lands pretty well covered it, but without all the ballyhoo how did you really feel deep down inside after the event. I guess you enjoyed yourself but in retrospect you are having doubts about your feelings.
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I was loving animals for twenty years before I heard any of the now so common labels. I like most dogs better than I like most people. Dogs don't tease and torment. Dogs don't bulley. Dogs do not call names, throw rocks or gang up on you.Dogs don't play stupid head games either.Dogs were and are my best friends. One day, many years ago, I fell in love with a bitch. When we took that final step, I felt bad for maybe 30 minutes. Then, the pleasure we both had and the love we both felt for each other washed over my spirit like some kind of balm and I've been fine with it ever sense.LTD
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QUOTE (st benard @ Jan 31 2010, 08:50 PM)I think lands pretty well covered it, but without all the ballyhoo how did you really feel deep down inside after the event. I guess you enjoyed yourself but in retrospect you are having doubts about your feelings. Heya st bernard, how I really felt is what I touched upon in my post. When I had finished, just after I had my orgasm, I did *did* feel a bit.... I am not sure what word to use there, not really regret, not really guilt, just a general sense of negativitiy. But as I said in my post it lasted all of 10 seconds. The progression of it was something like this... sex was suggested by my flat mate, I decided against it at first, grew to be curious, grew to want it, had sex, reached my orgasm, felt some sense of general negativity, got over the general sense of negativity after then my brain turned on again and the more logical side recalled how much she seemed into it and all that disappeared. I have to say that I know a number of people who for one reason or another (usually religion) suffer with guilt for years and years after having even just thoughts about being sexually active with an animal let alone sex. I have some good friends like this, friends I have sat up with many long nights trying to stop them from putting too much importance into words or other such things that wind up translating into absolutely nothing of importance when all is said and done. My past for better or worse makes it rather easy for me and I do realize that. As said above I have known a number of people who have for one reason or another clung onto certain things which have no relavane or importance at all. I have lived as I said in my first post by observing and doing. Within that I have only acted accordingly and for that I have no regrets nor anything to feel bad for. What others see as good or bad is of no relavance to me, I know what my partners like and have done everything I can to help them with that.... me getting off is just a bonus.
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heh, thank you land and everypone else for your contributions. it helps and means alot. i am truly greatful and feel so fortunate to be accepted into such a community that is not so quick to judge, and offer understanding my feelings arent for reasons like religion, its just uncertainty with myself and this new chapter in my life, i guess most of us get to be like this though at some point or another heh... again my thanks to you all who have posted and future thanks to those who post later on... i will keep in touch and i hope to hear from more of you as well as those who have already replied in the future cant say thanks enough ~
We all go through periods where we are unsure of ourselves, our feelings, etc at one point or another and I can understand where you are coming from more now then before with that. Life I think should be about learning and the best way to do that is by experiencig. This is why it is important not to shy away from your inclinations; your feelings. It may just happen that a number of years down the road you decide this wasn't right for you, or you might never stop having the feelings you have. The only way to discover these things is to have experiences which allow you to learn more about yourself. So confusion and doubt are rather normal. There are no real assurances in life and nothing stays the same for long. As delicate as it all is there is a lot of beauty to be found within it and there is a lot to be discovered. Just don't be afraid to get your hands dirty
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Everything that was said is true, read up on the FAQs and such if you get interested into actually doing it, also read "Unsure Female" thread by Valk9, best newb-to-lover thread ever.As a young girl who is into k9 (seemingly everyone thinks 20 is young), I can say that it has been a great experience and if you try it, you will have fun.
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