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hi im 19 bi fem and just joined the forum to find someone to talk to about this lifestyle since ive had my first time not to long ago and now im kinda lost. i dont own a dog i was dog sitting when it happend. but now its like stuck on my mind i think about it everytime, i cant even sleep and im ashemed of myself i wish i can take it back feel free to pm me if you have any suggestions thanks
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Well thats what were here for sweet heart and welcome As always read the rules first What exactly are you lost about? If you use the search bar you can find all kinda of information from people with similar experiences. I know when i first did it i wanted it. Others thought they were mentally prepared for it but ended up feeling ugly about themselves. Its ok it happens though. What you want to find out is if you would want to continue doing this or not. And if not is ok we appreciated you dropping by here Always ask for help we are not here to criticize.
i think its its great you are intrested but aska way we are always happy to lend a hand or I would love to chat with any time
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Well Miranda this is always hard. Many people are often programmed from an early age to be ashamed about sex or certain kinds of sex. It may be helpful to remember that sex and sexual feeling are perfectly natural part of being alive. Further your k9 partner that got you started certainly feels no shame about what happened nor does he/she look down on you for giving them some mutual pleasure. You need to look inward and throw away your "shame" about this. Learn to come to grips with your feeling and realize that what you are feeling are just another part of you, like a finger nail or eye lash is part of you. Also remember that you are not alone. The fact that places like this forum exist with people like us to talk too is proof of that. So you are not unusual in your feelings. Here at the very least you are quite normal. Don't be afraid to explore this side of your nature. Just be careful of how you express this part of yourself in public. For there are many closed minds that would not hesitate to hurt us because we are not afraid to love a species other than our own. Good luck.
I think alot of people feel initial shame at doing something for the first time as its so well pushe don people that what you did is wrong because society dictates that it is.The only person who can stop you feeling guilty is yourself in the end, if you enjoyed what happened then you enjoyed it and thats all that matters, I assume no-one knows you did it so no-one is judging you for it except yourself.I would suggest you just take a step back and really think about what you did, what you felt at the time and just take a deep breath to calm down and stop being so hard on yourself
First, I'll say welcome to the forum and get that out of the way... Second, yes, society does tend to try to make us feel ashamed of actions that fall out of "normal" acceptability. I was raised by a very traditional Roman catholic family. Masturbating is a sin, homosexuality is a sin, beastiality is a sin, and anything outside of having lots of babies without protection with your wife in missionary possition is a sin. Well, somehow, my parents have "adapted" to today's society without going nuts and splashing holy water into the face of strangers and putting burning crosses to their forehead.So, it's hard to move outside the box and feel comfortable. I remember my first time and I freaked out too. Course, probably wouldn't have been so bad if I hadn't done it outside in plain view of the neighborhood. My animalistic nature just sort of came out and I let it control my needs and actions. It could have been worst, all I did was make out heavily with my dog as I masturbated him off. At least someone didn't take pictures of him knotted inside of me to show my parents... >.< Still, that didn't keep me from questioning my actions and my sanity at the time. It took me a long time to accept that day and my feelings for animals. But, I believe that in the questioning myself and seeking a deeper knowledge, I have come to a point that I accept my true self and no longer feel ashamed. I have come to know that what I do with my partner is a spiritual connection that we share together. What we do together is for the other's enjoyment and pleasure. I don't need to glorify or justify my actions to anyone else to have a feeling of rightousness. The greatest satisfaction I have is in knowing that my partner is happy, safe, and content.I consider myself a zoo lifestyler. Not everyone can do that. Some people try it, aren't satisfied, and then move on. I admire them for being honest with themselves. An animal is a living, breathing, feeling being. They are NOT a piece of plastic, rubber, batteries, or latex. Yes, it's awkward the first time and there's lots of fumbling around. It's a discovery for you both to find what the other one likes and needs.I wish you many bright days and may peace and love surround you always. What you have done is nothing to be ashamed of and nothing that can be wished back. If you feel you have done something wrong or you hurt your animal friend, take comfort in knowing that animals unlike us humans, are quick to forgive you and love you back. If you truely wish to stop, it's up to you then to not push yourself back into a situation that you know will make yourself uncomfortable. Seek inner peace and knowledge, you will find them if you look hard into yourself. Peace out.HyBrithe Resurgam
Hello Miranda, welcome to our group. energydog has put this into the right context. I am sure you have read the FAQs pages by now. Do your research and learn about other people's experiences. There is no need to feel shame, for you this is quite natural.I am sure you did not feel shame when you discovered you are bi, this is just another part of your sexuality. It may take a while to fully accept this is who you are. Hang in there, don't be too hard on yourself and remember, you do have friends here in whom you can confide. Feel free to PM me if you feel talking to an older man will be of any help.
QUOTE (jamesfrmphilly @ Jun 26 2009, 11:27 PM) troll? ummmm where
thanks everyone (except james) for your comments they helped with my emotional state, and i will keep you updated if anything happens since i dog sit for my neighbours quite a bit .
Welcome to the club.It's pretty common to feel guilty about doing anything taboo . . . but then you have to question what "taboo" is and who decides what "taboo" is. Where I live, it's been decided that two HUMANS who love each other can't get married because being is taboo (yep, I live in CA). But since I've been on the internets for about 15 years, and about 14 of those years being a part of one zoo/beast community or another (I lurked a lot), you find that there are MANY people who do this, and there is a HISTORY of it.I tend to think that the people who make the "taboo" rules are closed minded and rather silly. You are not hurting the dog, and if you share mutual pleasure, than what is wrong with it?
Hi Miranda - I'm a newbee too !! Just had my very first "experience" and I am now buzzing !! The guilt has gone ( went with the first orgasm). I do understand BUT its your right to try whatever you want - if you don't want it again then fine, just move on. I too just found myself getting thoughts when dog sitting for a friend, then panicked at the thought, then rationalised it and finally had a go. Then panicked again but I am now fine !! Don't beat yourself up - its all OK - we girls sometimes think too deeply especially about guilt. As for me, I'm planning my next "experience" - frankly I can't wait !!
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welcome to the board. BTW be ready for alot of guys to PM u asking to hook up lol. also, u might wanna edit ur pics so they dont show too much of your face. u never know if u might be recognized in public.
ashamed ?oh no !!! Sorry Miranda,Nothing to be ashamed of.There are Alot of girls that Enjoy fun with doggies You aren't going to be 'shamed' by the folks here.Too many of us Enjoy girls enjoying dogs I do.I think it's Really HOT! Alannah had some good suggestions.She's been here for awhile.I'm sure she gets more PMs then she can go thru.oh,and Welcome to BF !! Hope you enjoy your stay and make a Few friends here.This is just a new way to Enjoy sex.Yeah,it's with a dog.so what ? You enjoy girls too,some folks think thats 'wierd'.Same thing with enjoying a dog.It's a bit different.No,you are NOT the only girl to do this.Yes,it is VERY enjoyable,is supposed to be.so Enjoy it No,you are NOT a freak,just more open-minded then most folks.and..some people think you enjoying a dog ROCKS!
welcum, you're very beautiful, by the wayand any chance you could tell us (or just me) what happened?
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I remember my first time. I was scared to death afterwards and confused. My other half thought it was the hottest thing he had ever seen. I did a ton of research and even PMed a couple people about my fears. But I couldn't get the desire out of my head. Then I just let myself go.It is hard to accept our own desires sometimes because of society. Don't let society decide what you do and don't enjoy, if you do you will never truely be happy.
Welcome I think everyone got it covered before me. Dont feel bad and keep your chin up.
Do I STILL have to say "Welcum to our Group"? himfella
Welcome to the forums. I just have but three quick suggestions for you:1. Do not be ashamed. If you enjoyed yourself then that is what really matters. So long as you treated yourself and your partner at the time with respect, there's nothing more different about it than if you were to, say, hook up with a guy from craigslist.2. Don't become obsessed. I've seen too many people find out they want to go zoo only to discover it was some horrible fetish and ended up abusing the animals if they were "lucky" enough to get one. Don't be that person. Animals are like any other person, you have to given them love and compassion for them to give you love and compassion back.3. Be open, but only to people you trust. This is one of those things that kind of can ... well, turn in to a witch hunt. I've been scarred by a friend who was also a zoo and word got out that they liked dogs. One thing led to another, windows were smashed, cars were vandalized, and he had to move. I lost a good friend because of close-minded simpletons. So, be open with people but only to those whom you trust.I wish you the best, and so long as you had a good time then you've got nothing to regret.
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Hey just stopping by to see hoe your gettin along hugs >^_^<
don't be ashamed, enjoy it and keep posting. big hug from me
QUOTE (alannah.hottie @ Jun 27 2009, 10:17 PM) welcome to the board. BTW be ready for alot of guys to PM u asking to hook up lol. also, u might wanna edit ur pics so they dont show too much of your face. u never know if u might be recognized in public. You make practical sense there my friend.... but then..........As a man who loves WATCHING bestiality, it is always good (for me) to see some hot human apart from the regular golden furs
Honey, if you have an itch, scratch it. Or should I say get it licked!But watch out it is habit forming.
The only thing I'd add is that if you didn't suffered pain, nor your lover at time did (you'll know for sure if he looks for you, or if he is afraid of you), then there is noting wrong with it!If you both liked it, and you both shared the pleasures, then everything is Ok, your concerns show that you are good hearted, and thus you didn't acted out of malice, "talk to him" (as in get close to him and see how he reacts, if he is shy or afraid, make him understand you won't hurt him, if he looks towards you, congratulations, you got yourself a lover!and as said before, Wellcome to our little world!
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i think its its great you are intrested but aska way we are always happy to lend a hand or I would love to chat with any time
QUOTE (miranda19 @ Jun 25 2009, 08:07 PM) hi im 19 bi fem and just joined the forum to find someone to talk to about this lifestyle since ive had my first time not to long ago and now im kinda lost. i dont own a dog i was dog sitting when it happend. but now its like stuck on my mind i think about it everytime, i cant even sleep and im ashemed of myself i wish i can take it back feel free to pm me if you have any suggestions thanks Why be ashamed of what you did with the dog.It was somthing that you wanted at the time.So let your self go and enjoy what you did.No harm done .But a lot of enjoyment tho.
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QUOTE (wet_lesbo_lover @ Jun 28 2009, 08:54 AM) welcum, you're very beautiful, by the wayand any chance you could tell us (or just me) what happened? Ummmm, lets not be pushy ok? She is uneasy with what she did, I don't think the first thing she needs is someone who doesn't seem to notice her feelings, and just go straight into the dirty details, she might later, she might not, thats her decision.
all of us. man or woman who have tried zoo have been concerned, afterwards about our actions. Each of us has to decide if this is the direction that we want to take.All of us have secrets that we do not want others to know. that is just life. but it does and did feel so right at the time. lolGood luck and best wishes, remember always be safe.
dont be afraid! I was scared to when i start! The only thing i wil tell you is if you have love it? Just take pleasur and give pleasur to the dog! Is the most important thing!i m so scared my parents or friend know it but i love it and take lot of pleasur!You must take care of you and of your security. But just enjoy yourself!!KissAurelie
auriel, good luck in keeping your secret from your parents. What you do with your body is strictly Your business, no one else's. Stay true to yourself, stay safe and have fun.
Miranda, there has been some great advice given to you on this thread. Take time to absorb all your feelings that you are having. Think about what you are ashamed of if anything (which you have nothing to be ashamed of) I went through the same thing that you are going through. I think most of use start with feelings of curiousness, lust, excitement, pleasure and then shame or guilt because we did and enjoyed soemthing taboo. My advice is take time to examine yourself and get to know yourself alittle deeper and possibly even let your curiosities take over. You never know where the ride will take you and you just might enjoy the ride. T statred of that same way that you discribed and have been with k9's for many years and can not imagine k9 lovers not being part of my life. You have come to a great place to find support, information and to meet great people that are experiencing the same feelings that you are and that are into the lifestyle that you are experimenting with. If you need anything Hun, just message me and I'll try to help. All the best wishes hun and enjoy yourself
i wanna thank everyone for the support and tips that you have gave me which did help, in fact i feel much better. since last time ive done some research on my own, read stories and watched videos with girls and dogs that got me very wet but now im not sure what to do, take it to the next level or knot the good news is that im dog sittin for that same couple next week and im also wonderin if the owners are into this too because it didnt seem like it was his first time hmmn. i dont know. i will update you about how it went. thanks XOXO
Miranda,Please tell us, in detail. what happened last time?
i m happy for you i hope you have lot of pleasur next week!Take care of you and take time to feel you ready! I you have question send me a message i will try to answer!KissAurelie
i am new as well. and i am very comforted to know that those of us that are new are accepted so quickly and openly. i was wondering if anyone in this thread could help me out as well. i am a christian, and as you might have figured out these feelings i have conflict with my beliefs. i was wondering if anyone had any advice, and if there are other christian zoophiles out there.
Miranda, don't assume that the owners are into it also just because he seemed such a natural, dogs can learn darn quickly, and their instinct can fill the gaps very fast.On the other hand, If you get a chance to explore a deeper experience, search the forum for the info you'll need (the basic recommendations, have at least two hours for yourself, a place to get comfortable, and the use of socks to protect yourself, unless you think like me that scratches are sexy )I hope you enjoy it.Kaninov
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QUOTE (newbiewolf69 @ Jul 13 2009, 08:32 AM) i am new as well. and i am very comforted to know that those of us that are new are accepted so quickly and openly. i was wondering if anyone in this thread could help me out as well. i am a christian, and as you might have figured out these feelings i have conflict with my beliefs. i was wondering if anyone had any advice, and if there are other christian zoophiles out there. Yes, there are. I being one of them. I may not be new to zoophilia, but I cannot say I am experienced. While the religion discussion should be kept to a minimum, I thought I would at least let you know you are not alone in those particular conflicts. Will it keep me from fulfilling my zoophilic tendencies? Probably not.Apologies if I cut too close to the surface, I just thought it should be answered.
dont feel bad about what happened and youre not weird for having thoughts about it. my FIRST experience was reading about it in a book and it was in great detail. after that i sought it out searching online for any infromation i could find about what i was thinking. its normal youre eyes have been opened to a beautifull new sensation and way of thinking and you just want to learn an grow with it. dont be afraid or ashamed
QUOTE (miranda19 @ Jun 25 2009, 02:07 PM) hi im 19 bi fem and just joined the forum to find someone to talk to about this lifestyle since ive had my first time not to long ago and now im kinda lost. i dont own a dog i was dog sitting when it happend. but now its like stuck on my mind i think about it everytime, i cant even sleep and im ashemed of myself i wish i can take it back feel free to pm me if you have any suggestions thanks Miranda, First off, welcome to the site. We hope you'll find yourself in good company here. Now...I can't really help you with any of the physical aspects, but for the emotional/mental side of things I can totally understand. You are experiencing something perfectly normal for everyone after their initiation into this lifestyle interest. It's okay to doubt and wonder and question why; It's part of being human. I think many (perhaps even most) of the us here had some initial misgivings (for lack of a better word) when we started out; like energy said, society has pretty well hammered into our psyche what we are and are not supposed to do, and getting involved with animals is solidly in the Not column. You seem to be off to a good start; Doing research on the subject and discovering there are others out there like you really makes things easier. Back when I first started, there was no BeastForum...and it's kind of hard to find the information I needed from an encyclopedia, lol. Ultimately, you set your own comfort level and decide where you want to go with this lifestyle interest. You can get fully involved, or simply have a curious encounter. No one way is wrong, and like anything else in life it has its risks and its rewards. And you may find the rewards outweigh the risks. Finally, I really like your sig. Take it to heart, and embrace this side of yourself. We've all been through what you're going through now, and there are plenty of good folks here on the site who will help you any way they can, myself included. Best of luck to you!
You have nothing to worry about. Youre a sexy beautiful girl who's brave enough to try different things out. So do not be ashammed of yourself! X
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Hey Miranda!For some reason I feel like I always echo people on this site but welcome to the most open place on the internet!As with the rest of the girl's offers for help, you have mine too Feel free to drop a line!
hey everybody, just a quick update on my story, i was supposed to dog sit for that couple but nothing happend thats why i didnt post anything in fact they took the dog with them for vacation, but on the other side i had another experience with my friends dog (black lab, 2 yo, named bruno). it all happend just two days ago when i went to my friends house to before going to a club so it was in the evening but i got there early and she wasnt ready she had to take a shower and get dressed so i just sat on her bed and watched some tv. usually before we go to a club we drink some shots to loosen up and get pumped so i drank a couple while she was showerin. at some point i see bruno come in the room and sat next to me, he knows me since ive met ashley(my friend) and ive played plenty of times with him. but this was the first time that i see him in a different way, if you know what i mean, so i start to pet him like i always do and he likes it and at the same time im gettin horny because i start thinking of all the videos and stories ive read during these weeks, than things got kinda hot when i started playin with my wet pussy, i didnt worry much about my friend because i knew she would take forever to get ready, and than i did something almost by instinct like my body was asking for it, i laid down on the bed and spread my legs open, i was wearing a small short black dress that barely covers my ass and then pulled my panties on the side and began playin with my clit, i knew that bruno was going to respond to my actions and he did as i felt him first sniffin then likin my pussy ive done oral sex before but this was felt much better as you can imagine it didnt take me long to cum and have an orgasm i felt like a shock going through my body and he kept liking me for what it seemed like an infinity but was only like 10 min. after that i felt like i was dreamin i had a very strange sensation maybe cause of the boose or maybe because i was in disbelif for wat happend, it took me a while to recompose myself and act like nothin happen. wat a night that was i will never forget it i would like to chat with other girls and share experiences and maybe more
QUOTE (miranda19 @ Jul 27 2009, 06:59 AM) hey everybody, just a quick update on my story, i was supposed to dog sit for that couple but nothing happend thats why i didnt post anything in fact they took the dog with them for vacation, but on the other side i had another experience with my friends dog (black lab, 2 yo, named bruno). it all happend just two days ago when i went to my friends house to before going to a club so it was in the evening but i got there early and she wasnt ready she had to take a shower and get dressed so i just sat on her bed and watched some tv. usually before we go to a club we drink some shots to loosen up and get pumped so i drank a couple while she was showerin. at some point i see bruno come in the room and sat next to me, he knows me since ive met ashley(my friend) and ive played plenty of times with him. but this was the first time that i see him in a different way, if you know what i mean, so i start to pet him like i always do and he likes it and at the same time im gettin horny because i start thinking of all the videos and stories ive read during these weeks, than things got kinda hot when i started playin with my wet pussy, i didnt worry much about my friend because i knew she would take forever to get ready, and than i did something almost by instinct like my body was asking for it, i laid down on the bed and spread my legs open, i was wearing a small short black dress that barely covers my ass and then pulled my panties on the side and began playin with my clit, i knew that bruno was going to respond to my actions and he did as i felt him first sniffin then likin my pussy ive done oral sex before but this was felt much better as you can imagine it didnt take me long to cum and have an orgasm i felt like a shock going through my body and he kept liking me for what it seemed like an infinity but was only like 10 min. after that i felt like i was dreamin i had a very strange sensation maybe cause of the boose or maybe because i was in disbelif for wat happend, it took me a while to recompose myself and act like nothin happen. wat a night that was i will never forget it i would like to chat with other girls and share experiences and maybe more Marianda.You know thats the same way my wife got into sex with her dogs.Was by starting out letting her dogs lick her pusssy.soon after that she started into haveing sex with them.Now shes totaly addicted to dog sex.she tells me that theres no feeling like haveing her big dogs hot throbbing pulsating cock all the way in her pussy as he cums inher.Thanks for your story.godoggo.A ten. And yes welcome to the sight.A lot of nice people here with the same feelings.
Congrats on your experience, hopefully you'll have more to indulge in
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QUOTE (splitsville @ Jul 13 2009, 05:14 AM) Miranda,Please tell us, in detail. what happened last time? This isnt your personal spank bank. If thats what you are looking for there are plenty of stories in the story section
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Miranda, You will have to excuse some of the people here. Like any sight theres always those few that are just looking for a quick jerk off section. There are some wonderful people here. I hope you enjoy your time here
thanks for the replies i dont know if i would have done it without the drinks. the problem is that now thats all i think of and nobody (friends and family) knows it. thanks to this forum though im able to express myself and how i feel. if there is any experienced ladies out there pls help me out on what to do next.thanks
Well done Miranda. Next time try it without the drinks. You have crossed the threshold and the world didn't end. Take time to think this through, decide if you want to continue and, most important, remember, you are only answerable to yourself. If you need support, there are those of us here who will do what we can to help you. Good luck.
Happy to hear about your experience!Ok, Alcohol is a disinhibitor (as in if you are skunk as a drunk you'll dare to do things that you wouldn't if you were sober), it helps to start something, as in your case, you had the zoo bug already incubating, it helped it flourish, that was an experience.The important thing is how do you feel about it now?, As your comments indicate, you are happy with it, (exited, entrusted, or something like that), so you feel no regrets, wellcome to a bigger world, I can't help you in the finer details, but I can give you advice on the general stuff (I also like male dogs )take your time to go further, after all, as said before on the thread, you only answer to yourself, if your ethos allows it, it is ok, if not, well, it isn't, and no one's fault.Good luck!Kaninov
What you do next is up to you, if you wish to go further, there are some wonderful FAQ's out there on the forum that I wish I had when starting out!Can't go wrong with those!
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