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Hi. I'm a simple guy. At least, that's what I'd like to say. Really, I'm about more complex than calculus. I still haven't found what I have been looking for ever since I got the means to, and that is an honest open answer.I thought I found a missing piece to the puzzle when I fell upon BF some while ago, but no one has yet to provide me any type of good insight. Maybe I've been asking in the wrong places, lurking in the wrong threads, PMing the wrong people? I don't know, but I gave up on the search a long while back and just started doing what I thought was right: making the occasional post and lurking.But now, I want so much more than that. Let me explain:I am a 23 year old guy. Proud father of a child who just celebrated their second birthday, and I am married to said child's mother. We're both Afro-American, and she kind of falls under the sexual general stereotype of any heterosexual woman, meaning no animal play. I personally have been interested in what it would be like with personally being intimate with an animal since probably the beginning of high school. I thought I would grow old and find someone who shared the same passion, but I feel kind of ... repressed not being able to freely share my ideas anywhere except here.Well, apparently I underestimated the leniency of the missus one day because she told me that "she didn't care if I slept with other people" considering how few partners I've had in the past, and considering that she doesn't think just "sex" makes up a relationship. Apparently, she used to be in a polyamorous relationship and knows that one person can love two or more people equally at the same time. So I have tried to use this to my advantage of finding the one person who would be just as passionate about animals.I myself do not have the privilege of calling a dog my own best friend. I've for so long wanted a dalmatian to have as a loyal companion and to treat him/her with respect, and possibly see if I could have the same type of relationship that I would with a human. I've had little success, however, mainly because every single place we move to is pet-free (especially university housing, which is where I spent the bulk of my years after high school). So I feel trapped in this parallel tube that does nothing but fall straight down, and there's no ledge to grab on to.I guess the main jist of what I am trying to get at here is how exactly do you find someone with your own personal interests? I have tried for so long and every effort has been futile. I, for the longest time, would like to meet with a person who shares the exact same interests as me and if I am luckier than the pregnant woman who went skydiving and survived the plummet because her chute didn't open, maybe ... just MAYBE I'd be able to lose my animal virginity along with this person (because I think I would be too nervous to go at it alone) next to me.I just feel that I'm staring at a blank wall in front of me with no indicator on which way to go, if there even was a way to go. If you were in my shoes, how would you hop this hurdle? I feel that I cannot do it by myself, so I turn to you with the question "what would you do in this situation?"Any comments or help would be appreciated. As well as any questions.
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Well that IS the ultimate question now isn't it. Saying that finding someone with this sort of interest is "Hard" is wuite the understatment. I've been looking for that very same person you mention for WELL over 15 years now with literally 0 success. Finding this site is the closest I've ever gotten to actually finding that person, but I live in a rather small area and honestly don't expect to really locate anyone. And despite not really knowing that many people in this community (Beast Forum) I'm willing to be people have gone there entire lives looking for someone but not comming across any.In the end all we can do is what weve BEEN doing. Looking on this forum, keeping our ears open and every once in a while taking that risky step of possibly entrusting someone with the information of what your into on the OFF possability that they might be into it too.
Well, for me it's more meeting people who can relate to me and be open with me about the same subject than it is meeting someone for a relationship. I do not want to sound like an abuser because that is far from what I am, so I really just strictly want to meet people face-to-face to at least TALK about what brought them in to the world.I'm not asking someone to give their first-born son here! I just want to have a friendship with one who can relate to the way I feel.
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