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I've read lots of stories here that go into great detail regarding the physical sex, but have you ever actually experienced an emotional bond with the animals you are having sex with during sex? Or is that even possible to accomplish with an animal?
Of course its possible. In fact I always found the sex best when I had a strong emotional bond with the dog I was having sex with.
Don't have an animal to be with yet, but when I do, I would have an emotional bond! I want to show the animal that i love him/her when that happens!
I'm certain that many do have an emotional bond during sex. Although I personally never did.
Always had an emotional bond with my Max during sex. Increases my pleasure
yup. to me the actual physical mounting is much less erotic than the physical contact/closeness to my dog. the biggest and most powerful sex organ in the body is the brain, after all.
I have a very strong emotional bond with my bitch, be it during sex or otherwise. It's actually this bond that makes the relationship, and not the sex. I could be without the sex - but not without the emotional bond.Prank
Thanks for all your inputs everyone.
Absolutely! I’ve had my dogs for years now, I can’t see life without them, isn’t that an emotional bond. Now would I swim the widest ocean, climb the highest mountain, cross the burning desert, for my dogs, most likely not. I just can’t see trading them in for a pair of Guinea Pigs. A pair of Guinea Pigs just wouldn’t cut it even if I could mate with them.;-)
On many an occasion I would have willing stood at the alter and given my self to my then current partner. Now if that is not bonding with my partner, I could ask "what is."
QUOTE (KJCNM @ Aug 21 2008, 10:13 PM) Now would I swim the widest ocean, climb the highest mountain, cross the burning desert... For me, this has described my feelings for my animals at many times in my life. I would have given my life to have saved my first love, Buck, as he passed away in my arms. Definitely a huge emotional bond for me with all the animals I've loved.
sorry to hear that he went like that.
Yes I love my dogs very much. For me that's what enjoy the most is his love.
It is certainly possible, though it didn't happen for me.Don't get me wrong, I did love my grrl, but not in the deep romance-novel way. More in the standard, "she's my pet, she's like family to me" way. I certainly cared for her and wanted to make sure she was enjoying the experience whenever we were together, and we were very much in tune with one another sexually, but the whole soul-bonding thing...no. I'm only capable of making that connection with another human.I guess that's separates the beastlovers from the t-total zoos.
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Skyrune, I wouldn't worry too much about it. After all what you feel IS essentially the same as what your average married couples feel for each other when they make love. I think what he original poster was looking to find out was if there was ANY kind of emotional bond you shared with the animal you make love with. Not that you "fall in love" in some deep emotional unrealistic Harlequin novel kinda way during and as a result of the throes of sex. Which is in reality not what realistically happens between people either. If it did it would be common and people wouldn't need to write idealized fantasies novels about that kind of love and sex.Which is differentiated from simply liking a particular animal or just liking a particular human lover. As we all know love is not necessary to have sex. And most people who do have sex aren't in deep love. And I think that was the point of the original poster.
For me, except for one case, emotional bonding takes place before sexual attraction I have very intense emotions when mating. And even in that one case I spoke of, love came very soon after our first coupling.LTD
I've had emotional bonds with my animals without having sex with them. So it's not a far stretch that when I actually have an animal of my own sexually there will be an emotional bond.Just because your animal can't say "I love you" back doesn't mean you can't bond with them emotionally as well as physically.
for me i'd have to say a big YES.for me it's that emotional bond that is important, and the best part to me. even with out actural sex that deep emotional bond is very wonderful, and something i love and treasure with my girl. I'd rather have that bond than sex if i had to choose between them. Sex is just an added bonus.Tundra
QUOTE Just because your animal can't say "I love you" back doesn't mean you can't bond with them emotionally as well as physically. Aww of course they can and thats a good stance, they have their own language, whether its physical (licking your face, nuzzling, curling up beside you) or other means (a whinney or other noise). Of course, you are literally right as I doubt they can speak in a human tongue They know they're loved and emotional bonds should be there with or without sexual intercourse Edited: forgot someting
Of course, I do!He is my best friend, my lover, my protector and can always make me laugh.Being joined with him is emotion charged.
Know what you mean babe Wouldn't have it any other way
QUOTE (SusanMichelle @ Aug 24 2008, 06:43 PM) Of course, I do!He is my best friend, my lover, my protector and can always make me laugh.Being joined with him is emotion charged. amen!
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Yeah, I am most emotional when I'm not having sex. Well, he's not really in a cuddling mood when he's hard.I mean, sometimes he'll come into my room at 4am and nuzzle me, and then put his front paws on me. He nuzzles me pretty hard, and sometimes I tell him to go lay down, but other times he's so dang cute I can't help but cuddle.
I see sex as a emotional bond anyway, so I would definitely form that bond during intercourse.
QUOTE (energydog @ Aug 22 2008, 05:49 PM) Skyrune, I wouldn't worry too much about it. After all what you feel IS essentially the same as what your average married couples feel for each other when they make love. I think what he original poster was looking to find out was if there was ANY kind of emotional bond you shared with the animal you make love with. Not that you "fall in love" in some deep emotional unrealistic Harlequin novel kinda way during and as a result of the throes of sex. Which is in reality not what realistically happens between people either. If it did it would be common and people wouldn't need to write idealized fantasies novels about that kind of love and sex.Which is differentiated from simply liking a particular animal or just liking a particular human lover. As we all know love is not necessary to have sex. And most people who do have sex aren't in deep love. And I think that was the point of the original poster. Very good point energydog.I guess maybe I read too much into the original question. I will say though that when sex is intense enough - as it can often become when mating with animals - the lines representing what is emotional connection, and what is pure physical pleasure do tend to blur a bit.Good thread, nevertheless.
Yes, definitely. I loved her a lot and I still miss her sometimes a dozen years later.
QUOTE (cowlover3167 @ Aug 31 2008, 01:27 AM) Yes, definitely. I loved her a lot and I still miss her sometimes a dozen years later. I can't even imagine what it will be like when my baby is gone. It will tear me apart, because even though he's just under 1.5 years, I still worry about that day.
I've always had a deep emotional bond with all my dogs, having sex with them has never changed that merely added a nice big bonus
QUOTE (Onasi @ Aug 31 2008, 04:44 AM) I've always had a deep emotional bond with all my dogs, having sex with them has never changed that merely added a nice big bonus Agreed. The fact that I have sex strengthens that bond. He is a lover and constant companion.
QUOTE (SusanMichelle @ Aug 24 2008, 06:43 PM) Of course, I do!He is my best friend, my lover, my protector and can always make me laugh.Being joined with him is emotion charged. I agree...
QUOTE (SusanMichelle @ Aug 24 2008, 06:43 PM) Of course, I do!He is my best friend, my lover, my protector and can always make me laugh.Being joined with him is emotion charged. Yes, mine makes me laugh almost daily. He has that goofy look, and beady little wolf eyes. Sometimes he's spastic and will jump up on my lap when I'm in the recliner. Sometimes he'll make me laugh just laying down not really doing anything. He's amazing.
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Every time for me. I don't have any emotional or physical attractions to humans. I do however have both an emotional and physical attraction to horses. When ever I and my mare are involved sexually there is ALWAYS an emotional bond.
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QUOTE (Hightailin @ Aug 31 2008, 06:18 PM) Every time for me. I don't have any emotional or physical attractions to humans. I do however have both an emotional and physical attraction to horses. When ever I and my mare are involved sexually there is ALWAYS an emotional bond. Hey, is it true that one can stick their head up in a mare's vagina or ass and yodel?I read somewhere that someone liked to do that.
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QUOTE (NanakiWolfMon @ Aug 31 2008, 06:24 PM) QUOTE (Hightailin @ Aug 31 2008, 06:18 PM) Every time for me. I don't have any emotional or physical attractions to humans. I do however have both an emotional and physical attraction to horses. When ever I and my mare are involved sexually there is ALWAYS an emotional bond. Hey, is it true that one can stick their head up in a mare's vagina or ass and yodel?I read somewhere that someone liked to do that. I would like to see someone try that, and watch the mare kick the living crap out of them. Mares are not that loose at all. In my experience on average, if they have not had a foal they are about as tight as say an average woman. So yeah, I think who ever you heard that from has a pretty warped fantasy and knows nothing of horses.
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Cant really explain it..but I believe we do.
QUOTE (NanakiWolfMon @ Aug 31 2008, 04:27 PM) QUOTE (SusanMichelle @ Aug 24 2008, 06:43 PM) Of course, I do!He is my best friend, my lover, my protector and can always make me laugh.Being joined with him is emotion charged. Yes, mine makes me laugh almost daily. He has that goofy look, and beady little wolf eyes. Sometimes he's spastic and will jump up on my lap when I'm in the recliner. Sometimes he'll make me laugh just laying down not really doing anything. He's amazing. I dont now but it seems that mail/femail have diferent preference, if I understand tight?
Of course there's an emotional bond. We've known each other over ten years. He knows when I'm happy, when I'm sad or ill. When we have sex, there's a change in the dynamic but the trust we have in each other remains the same. The act itself is a fun we share and an expression of the bond that already exists between us.
QUOTE (Furious_George @ Aug 21 2008, 07:55 AM) I've read lots of stories here that go into great detail regarding the physical sex, but have you ever actually experienced an emotional bond with the animals you are having sex with during sex? Or is that even possible to accomplish with an animal? yes, they are family as well as lovers
Interesting subject. I don't think without the emotional bond I could engage in physical intamcy with an animal. The longer you are around and care for them this bond grows between you, and eventually comes the time when it's right to take it to the next level. I couldn't just tie up a strange mare and try to hump her, she'd more than likely see it as rape and give me both barrels!!
Very good content here. 10+ for the thread.
I sure do.
This may sound weird to some.But here gos.My wife she started into haveing sex with dogs at a very young age cant tell the age.And from the first time she has never stopped haveing sex with dogs and she told me tat she will always have sex with her dogs.The thing is she wants to breed with her dogs.She acturly wants to have her shepherds breed her,I dont know how a women could get any closer to her dogs than this.
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Well with me, if my dog shows any signs of discomfort, I will stop so that he doesn't get too scared and such. I don't mindlessly go after sex with him. It's a love-both-ways relationship. Heck, he wakes me up sometimes at 4am by nuzzling me in my bed pretty hard. And will then lay down on me sideways. Most days though I'm up before him, but even these little things I don't mind in the least.
Oh yes, every time. I like to watch their eyes. When I have sex with my cows, you can watch their eyes, when they almost close them during sex they feel as good as I do.
Absolutely. My first girl and I shared a deep emotional bond. I loved her more than anything, and miss her greatly. 17 months together was way too short, but it has been the best 17 months of my life. The day she died, I cried my heart out, and was willing to try to take my own life just so we could be together again. But with my other girls, I feel an emotional bond with them, and love them all with all of my heart. Like I told my friend on here, I don't care about the sex. If my dick was chopped off, I would still love them the same. The sex is just an added bonus, like Tundra said.
Man monochromefox. Your avy is swingin'10 for the cool effect.
I think it has been decisively decided that YES people can have deep emotional bonds with the animals they mate with. Like some of the posters here have mentioned though, not all do. Everyone here I know in this thread would be considerate and thoughtful with the animal but some just don't connect with them emotionally/spiritually. Just like some people (particularly swingers and such) do not get wrapped up emotionly with other humans they have sex with as well. Different strokes and all. My 2 cents.
I definitely have experience a deepened emotional bond with Cosmo while having sex. The way that gives me most pleasure in having sex is when I am on my back so I can see his head and he can lick me and I can lick him back. Then I feel the closest to him...
I have a strong bond with my mini mare, and she has with me too. I cannot imagine any other way with her, with or without the sex. The sex is the icing on out cake!
of course its possible i have a emotional bond with my mare.
I find it hard not to form one, I've always become closer to the people I've had sex with, whether it's because I'm a complex individual or just AWSOME at what I do remains to be seen... As for animals, I've only ever given hand jobs to one dog a couple of times, but he and I already had a loving connection.
A strange question indeed!Having sex with animals or humans involves having an emotional bond even if the sex is only a "Quickie".My experiences with both dogs and humans meant that such a bond enhanced the whole sexual aspect, without it, I can imagine it being very robotic and cold. Pokerman
I don't think it's possible not to have a bond.I know I do!
i have not always had an emotional bond with every dog i have had sex with...nor every human either, for that matter but i have loved some in the past and i love my boy now, there is definately an emotional bond with him when he mounts me
Yes. Its always there, the affection comes before the arousal, affectionate arousal is the best. We like missionary because its so intimate and we can communicate and show our emotions and our sexual desire for each other so easily in that position, I cant imagine anything more satisfying, for me and my gorgeous Rotty anyhow.
i would have to say yes .sex is nothing if the feels arent there.i love looking in my girls eyes holding her and telling her how mutch she means to me sex is just a bonus
monochromefox think of the ones you leave behinde that care about you and your girls trust me it will get better .i know its hard loseing your girl to cancer but you still have 3 girls that depend on you .take care mono if you need to talk im here ,mop.
no, not really, I love my dogs, but an especially emotional bond between us because of sex. . . no, none
I woul dlike to believe i do. When i have sex with my dog it just feels....connected somehow i cant even explain it. I love before we start they he gets flirty with me and will romp around a little bit. i pet him and stroke him and his him. I try to make it as emotional as possible for us.
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I have a strong emotional bond with my mare, with or without the sex. When we do have sex, I have the most intense orgasms, that I have never achieved with a human.
I do have an enormous emotional bond with my K9s, even when they just lie on top of me I feel different and happier than before.I think that stories here lean more (heavily much more ) on physical sex because ALL erotic stories do so, if you don't believe me, look for naughty little stories of other genera (, lesbian, straight, etc) on your google almighty, I'd say 95% of the stories have such an arc:at first I didn't wanted/was too nervous/thought I couldn't do itthen, after a searing pain and some wild thrusting I started liking itwhen we both finished (simultaneously climaxed), we were bonded and sharing something different.because that is the structure of the main fantasy in human mind.hope this is an useful contributionKaninov
Allways had, never would without it.
During sex and during otherthing else! well when they bite me that feeling get a little weaker
I first tried to be alone with animals simply because they seemed sexually attractive, and not something to really love more than as a pet. I found however, when I was alone, that I really was there because I loved them, and wanted them to love me. I remember when I first tried to be alone with a mare. I snuck out of the house just because I knew that there was a mare across the way whom I probably could trust wouldn't kick me. As I approached the mare, however, I began to question my motivation; I wondered why I was so happy to be with her. It wasn't really because she was female and I male, nor was it because I was alone in a place where no one could see me. It is easy to get both of these things if that was all you are after. I stood there right next to her, and patted her on the head, and I kissed her. I must be in love with this animal, I remember thinking, because there could be no other possible reason why I was hugging her, and anticipating her wrapping her head around me, unless I really was emotionally connected to her. When I headed back to the house, after showing her just how much I loved her, I was thinking not of the pleasure she gave me, but of the feelings I now have for her.
Your damn right i do! I cant even truly get into sex unless i at least know her really well first. But that strong emotional bond is what takes it from sex to a whole different level.
gotta love the emotional bond
QUOTE (silkythighs @ Aug 21 2008, 08:24 PM) I'm certain that many do have an emotional bond during sex. Although I personally never did. I guess that you might say that my wife did.While her dog was on top of her fucking her.As she got so carried away that she was necking with her dogmissinary style him on top of her>To get it straight.
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I would never have started sex with my dog if we didnt have quite an emotional bond already, that is what made me feel OK about trying things out. When we went all the way and then became regular lovers, the emotional bond has got much stronger. When we call it emotional bond, are we really talking about love.
What a wonder topic! And I'd have to reply with a resounding yes.In the beginning the feelings were sometimes overwhelming and I'd actually start to cry during the most passionate moments, but in a good way of course. During a tie, especially when he becomes almost motionless and starts to cum, I just feel so loved, possessed, adored, and even owned, and I want it to last so I can continue to give him pleasure.xoHeather
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For me it has always been the emotional bond that leads to sex. Sex is the expression of the emotion.
Sound like a beginner question: If just sex - no, if making love - yes (and just about all other times as well).
Absolutely in my case, I am sure mosthere feel the same way.But if the fellas out here enter their bitchwith their penis and she gives you "that" look.Then yes, you know exactly how she feels And yes, I failed completely to distribe the undescribable.Although Dogs arent romantic animals, to the degree thatthey can share emotional bonding, they sure will and iveheard from horse owners that they experience the samething.
QUOTE (godoggo @ Sep 4 2008, 08:23 PM) This may sound weird to some.But here gos.My wife she started into haveing sex with dogs at a very young age cant tell the age.And from the first time she has never stopped haveing sex with dogs and she told me tat she will always have sex with her dogs.The thing is she wants to breed with her dogs.She acturly wants to have her shepherds breed her,I dont know how a women could get any closer to her dogs than this. OOOOOOOh yes i walked in on her one night while she was haveing sex with her shepherd with him on top of her missinary style like a man fucking her.They was acturly necking as he was fucking her.If thats not bonding i dont know what you would call it.And yes i did belive her when she told me how bad she wanted him to breed her like a bitck dog.LOL dam lucky dog. A ten fot the threa d.
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