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Okay, those who read my Yay! I got a new dog thread, know about the newest member of my pack.General info about him:He is very playful, always happy. Prefers not to listen and tries to do what he wants. His history is not known, but I think he was a tethered backyard dog who didn't get much attention or training. He is about two years old.I've been training this little rascal, and I have seen improvements. He is learning to walk properly on a leash, and starting to obey commands like sit, stay, come (about half the time). The problem is he lacks focus. He is distracted by everything. I've been patiently working with him, but he can be difficult. Okay, for what you people really want to hear about... He's an awesome licker. He will lick and lick tirelessly, and that is probably the only thing this dog can keep focus on He's very orally inclined.So when I've tried to get him to mount me, he really just prefers to lick.He also has shown a liking to JP's genitals. That's wonderful, but JP is worried that while licking his penis and balls, Roy will be too enthusiastic and nip. Do any of you guys have any suggestions on this?Anyways, its been fun so far. I love this dog, and am willing to work with him until he is the perfect dog. I also have a new respect for our other dog. She is so well-behaved most of the time. Any comments or suggestions are welcome.
QUOTE (missywolf @ Aug 13 2008, 01:30 PM) Okay, for what you people really want to hear about... He's an awesome licker. He will lick and lick tirelessly, and that is probably the only thing this dog can keep focus on He's very orally inclined.So when I've tried to get him to mount me, he really just prefers to lick. There's an old saying. "You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make him/her drink." You've probably already aware that some dogs just don't see human's as sexual partners. Also two years is still a bit young. Given more time, he might come around. My lab didn't understand what I wanted from him either at first. I'm sure his hormones will kick in soon enough. Then again having sex with a human isn't a natural thing.You don't look or smell like a dog. He'd probably go wild for a bitch in heat though. So just continue to be patient with him. It's still to early to give up.
yep, Silkythighs, I agree with you on that and am well aware of it. I'm not giving up on him, of course not.
am willing to work with him until he is the perfect dog"That's quite a mouthful EH! Only training a 2 yr old for a mo. is a bit to expect perfection. Does he respond to manual stimulation? Have you been in heat and shown him your goodies? Have fun & keep it UP!
Great for you.IF he is already comfortable with you touching him everywhere.... slightly squeeze him thru the sheath above where the knot is. He should IMMEDIATELY start to hump. He'll then know that's a feeling he wants again. If he doesn't don't rush it he's not ready. Try again in a month.Just be patient.As for JP being worried about a nip. If it hasn't happened yet, don't worry..be happy.I love licking.Free
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QUOTE (admasst235 @ Aug 13 2008, 06:17 PM) am willing to work with him until he is the perfect dog"That's quite a mouthful EH! Only training a 2 yr old for a mo. is a bit to expect perfection. Does he respond to manual stimulation? Have you been in heat and shown him your goodies? Have fun & keep it UP! must be a mouthful if I didn't get said what I wanted to.I want eventually for him not to pull the leash at all and to obey commands. Not expecting perfection any time soon. Yes, I have manually stimulated him. and I'm actually "in heat" now but haven't tried with him. Might do tomorrow. and k9free, I'm being patient thanks for the tip.
QUOTE Suggestions for not being nipped? Yeah, be quick to block with your hands! wink.gif laugh.gifIts what I've been doing, but he still has that look in his eye, like my boner is an actual bone.
Good luck with your new friend!! himfella
sounds like great progress!!my dog had an occasional nipping issue, he never hurt me but he did surprise me a few times during his oral ministrations. just emphasize frequent praise for 'good lick' and if he ever does nip or nibble have JP make a very high pitched YIPE and stand up/leave the situation. chances are the dog will be exceptionally confused as to why the playtime stopped and try his best to never ever repeat the behavior.it's my personal belief that every dog and owner should go through the bonding experience of basic obedience. you already have done so much with him! from an outsiders perspective it sounds like he does love you but just doesn't respect you. there's a difference between a dog accepting/socializing/playing with you and actually respecting you, which is something many people dont grasp. i'm sure you know about that bond. giving him a reason to respect you is the best thing you can do right now.how you go bout doing that is up to you. there are many schools of thought, both reward-based and punishment-based, and both are viable. i personally mix the two, since fear is a much more powerful motivator but reward will last a lifetime. especially with unruly young dogs (or, as i see 'em, exuberant youngsters ) obedience schools that will use check collars will most certainly get you faster results. just don't stick solely to one method and your new bud will be a perfect citizen in no time!
thanks buckup. I don't like the punishment route. I do reward him whenever I can (my cupboard is full of doggy treats!) It hurts me to hurt him, if you know what I mean. I will do a quick hit on the muzzle, but not enough to hurt him. He yelped one time, and I guess I hit him hard, and I started to cry. I know, I'm such a baby...but I am starting to really love this dog, even if he can't respect me. I truly don't believe that punishment is a good way to gain respect with dogs. Sure it works with children, but dogs aren't really children. There must be another way.edit: and another thing, enough punishment will lead to fear. I don't want him to fear me. There can be respect without fear. There must be. I respect a lot of people without fearing them.
QUOTE (silkythighs @ Aug 14 2008, 07:04 AM)QUOTE (missywolf @ Aug 13 2008, 01:30 PM) Okay, for what you people really want to hear about... He's an awesome licker. He will lick and lick tirelessly, and that is probably the only thing this dog can keep focus on He's very orally inclined.So when I've tried to get him to mount me, he really just prefers to lick. There's an old saying. "You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make him/her drink." You've probably already aware that some dogs just don't see human's as sexual partners. Also two years is still a bit young. Given more time, he might come around. I'm sure his hormones will kick in soon enough. Then again having sex with a human isn't a natural thing.You don't look or smell like a dog. He'd probably go wild for a bitch in heat though. So just continue to be patient with him. It's still to early to give up. There is not much else one can add to the above. Maybe you could try to encourage him to mount you when you are at that time of the month.
QUOTE Maybe you could try to encourage him to mount you when you are at that time of the month.which is now, but I wasn't feeling well enough today to try anything. He, however, was very frisky, trying to put his nose in my crotch every chance he got. I'll see if he is interested tomorrow if I feel better. I certainly smell different to him right now.
Update...He has "sit" down pretty well. He will come when his name is called and responses well. He is still easily distracted, and I'm now working on "stay" and "lay down", trying to get him to focus on me. He is also walking well on the leash, and I have now got him to run beside me, something that one month ago would have been hard. He loves it, so I'm going to try to do it a few times a day (I need to get in shape too) As for sex, yesterday, he was rather horny, did get on top of me, doggy position, and humping, but not successful. But I ended our play session early after he started getting rough.Having him walk beside me on a leash, even running, has helped a lot with every other aspect of training. He is learning to respect me, and slowly, becoming a good dog.He and our other dog are always playing and they play rather rough. I need to get him to understand that when playing with humans he needs to be more gentle. I have a sore spot on my face from his rough play, and after he hit me in the face, I got up to show him I was finished now. Trying to show him that I don't like it and that it hurts me.The other dog doesn't play rough with people, at least not as bad. But she will play rough with other dogs, but I think she does realize that teeth and claws can hurt people. Is he so much of a puppy to not see that he can hurt us by playing that way?thanks for the tip, zechel. I already know that, of course, and I'm not really trying to get him horny, as he often is anyways. He is a young boy after all. But thanks for replying here.
QUOTE (missywolf @ Aug 25 2008, 03:42 PM)Is he so much of a puppy to not see that he can hurt us by playing that way?Quite possibly yes I would have said. His age as such is somewhat irrelevant as you got him last month I believe ...... and it looks like he's had not a great deal of interaction with humans .... so in a way, it's like starting completely afresh with a young puppy and his age is irrelevant ..... I had a huge problem with my dog hurting me in the beginning ..... cut nose, bruised eye, several deep scratches, he even jumped up and bit one of my boobs one day when I was walking into the kitchen !!!!!!! (and yes it bloody hurt ) ....... Anyway, I got a dog trainer round to the house who after spending time with us said it wasn't him being aggressive due to his Dobie side .... he was just trying to interact wih me and didn't know how to do it the right way. I can honestly say it didn't take long once I realised that and knew how to deal with it .... for me to stop being afraid of him somewhat ..... he stopped hurting me ...... and yes he'd rip someone's arm off that was aggressive to me in any way .... but would never hurt me intentionally.If it was me ..... and please don't take it as a criticism as it isn't intended to be so ..... because of his background and the fact he's still re adjusting to his new home and doesn't appear to have had much basic obedience training ..... I'd concentrate on the absolute basics ....... and assert dominance ...... and not allow or encourage any form of sexual behaviour or licking just yet. He needs to have the basics down pat and respect you as the Leader of his Pack before any sexual activity takes place.I'm not sure I'm explaining all that very well but i hope you get the overall geist
yep, I understand what you are saying, curious1.....He has been good today. Been following me closely, sitting by my side for some time. He had not been in my bedroom before, and I went in to put clothes in my closet, he followed. I have a pet rabbit as well. Her cage is located on top of my dresser. I don't think he ever noticed the rabbit before (because I keep him out of the room) but today he stopped and stared at her, tail went down, whimpered and turned around and left the room. I called his name, and he comes back, standing in the doorway not sure what to do. The rabbit is staring him down, and I think he is afraid of her.
QUOTE (missywolf @ Aug 26 2008, 08:47 PM) yep, I understand what you are saying, curious1.....He has been good today. Been following me closely, sitting by my side for some time. He had not been in my bedroom before, and I went in to put clothes in my closet, he followed. I have a pet rabbit as well. Her cage is located on top of my dresser. I don't think he ever noticed the rabbit before (because I keep him out of the room) but today he stopped and stared at her, tail went down, whimpered and turned around and left the room. I called his name, and he comes back, standing in the doorway not sure what to do. The rabbit is staring him down, and I think he is afraid of her. Yup, he's bound to be cautious of new strange things. But it sounds like you're cummin along with the usual around the house trng. As for corrections, i like to use a "scruff shake" when things are getting too ruff! Grasp the scruff of his neck (just ahead of his shoulders) and say "easy" or "gentle" or whatever your cue word will be. If necessary raise his front feet off the ground in this manner. Are you using consistant one word commands for your other communications?Praise verbally and a random treat when he really is good.
Thanks.Words I use with him:"Sit" for sitting"Down" for laying down"Come" to call him to me."Stay" to sit still"No" for don't do whatever he was doing. I'll try the "gentle" command if he gets rough. I have done the scruff thing to pull him off of the other dog when he was playing to rough with her. I said, "stop it, that's enough." But yeah, one word commands work best. I know that.He seems to understand me very well, the problem is if there is something more interesting than me he will ignore me. Frustrating, but this is actually the first dog I've ever actually attempted to train. It has been rewarding so far, and it has almost been a month since I took him home (I've known him for 2 months)
The first thin you need to remember is that you and your dog speak different languages. Keep all training humane. Untrained dogs are often punished for their poor behavior, but it really isn't their fault. You need to be the one to train your dog. The key to training is compassion. Never ever use shock collars to train a dog. I highly suggest the book Click Here for a Well-Trained Dog by Deborah A. Jones. Training through praise is the best way to teach a dog. Remember, practice makes perfect. Prevent unwanted behaviors, instead of scolding your dog for them. Just be patient; training takes time. Never punish your dog because they did something wrong. Everyone learns faster with encouragement—use toys, treats, and/or scratches under the chin—whatever your dog responds to best. Incorporate practice into your daily routine: Try a few exercises at feeding time; bring along some treats on your daily walks and practice sit, heel, and come; teach the meaning of a positive word like "OK" by saying it whenever it's time for a break. Give Roy a chance to do something RIGHT before he does something wrong. In other words, BE CONSIDERATE and PAY ATTENTION! Don't expect superhuman feats from him, such as "holding it" for 10 hours. Watch for Roy to start eyeing the neighbor's cat and call him to you for a good scratch behind the ears to distract him from giving chase. It is unreasonable to expect Roy to turn into a perfect gentleman overnight, so be patient. Keep training sessions short, interesting, and positive. If Rex starts to get bored and distracted after 10 minutes or you start to lose your temper, it's time for a recess.
Nothing new to me in your post, lucky13, except for the book suggestion, but thanks so much for taking the time to say it. You're awesome. today has been nice. He is being really calm and we were playing a little bit and then just laying there snuggling together. He is being so good. I lay out a sheet for us, and he is now laying there, I think he is waiting for me to get of this computer and play with him, so I will after I finish eating lunch. Oh! that's another issue. Sometimes dogs will beg for scraps from your plate. He's done it before, but got nothing out of it, so now he just doesn't bother. I confused him earlier when I pulled a bag of beef jerky out of the pantry. I also keep lots of dog treats in there, and some of them look similiar to jerky in the same kind of bag...so I get out the bag to get a snack for me, and he sits down all pretty in front of me, looking at me, ready for his treat, and then I start to eat it. I did give him one of his treats for being so good and not trying to steal the food from me.
Glad I could be of some help. I have all those books and love them. They have been so helpful. If you decide to take your dog to obedience classes, make sure to verify a trainer's references and credentials before you enroll in a program. Also, observe the trainer at work with other dogs in obedience classes or private sessions. Don't let a trainer force you to use a "choke" collar or train your dog to heel by yanking on his or her neck. Don't send your dog away to school.
I wouldn't do obedience classes because of that, unless of course I was right there the entire time. I don't think I need to anyways. He is making good progress with me. Oh, today was wonderful! I love him more each day, but today seemed like there was something special between us, first time I felt that way with him. We spent time together being sweet until JP came home and Roy got in his excited playful mood. Before then he was all cuddly, laying next to me, licking me (not just down there, but everywhere!) and just being my sweetie. I was nude, but we weren't being sexual, just cuddles and kissing. He's my special love now.
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my husky is pretty much exactly how you described in your first post, so I know where you're coming from. I've had him for some time, but he just gets so hyper he can't focus. I've actually never managed to get him to focus long enough to get unsheathed for any real fun, but he doesn't mind the licking. He gets so excited that I'm paying him that much attention that he will go nuts and get all hyper and lose what little erection he managed to get. It's driving my crazy. He doesn't hump at all, and won't mount me, but I guess he probably just needs time to adjust to the attention and get more sexually "aware".
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missy, sounds like you're doing really well with Roy so far!everyone is giving you some great advice, but I'd like to point out again for the record that there are many ways to train a dog. All-positive training, while increasingly popular and probably effective in the long run, does not work for every age and activity level dog. it requires a much calmer state of mind. i prescribe intense exercise! if you want to use all-reward methods you'll need at least a half hour of running/biking/swimming under his collar before you proceed with anything. if you want to use a mixed-reward program that includes gaining respect through occasional calm, clear correction it'll challenge the dog more mentally and do some of the work for you.there's a lot of criticism these days about a training program that includes negative feedback (correction). but here's a question for you: in a dog pack that does not include a human, how does the leader assert dominance? by giving the members of his pack treats every time they follow him? or by calmly reprimanding the beta dogs if they challenge him? A leader demands respect, in a calm non-aggressive manner that fosters trust from pack mates. Even as humans we usually doubt or refuse to follow a 'weak' leader, right? I know i work harder in classes or jobs where the professor/boss demands higher achievements from me. it gives me something to work for and engages my brain.also... i'd think twice about the scruff grab as a method of correction. all that will do in an active/hyper dog is excite them and make them think you're trying to play. try doing a jugular 'bite' with your hand. just make a claw with your hand and tap them under the jaw on the neck. that's what momma dog would use to put them in their place. the scruff is for kittens, not dogs! bitches never even move their puppies using the scruff. there is no significance to that action for them.oh, and one more thing... I think everybody would love to see more pics!! Roy's a real beauty! You're a lucky girl.
I just made a really long post and then I got a page load error as it was posting. Since I don't feel like typing it all over again, I'll give the short version:thanks for the comment and suggestions buckup.Roy is doing very good, big improvements in his behavior.and we love each other very much I had a lot more details for each of those statements, but at my internet connection.
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Missy , Its been sometime since we have been updated on young Roys progression. How has his behavior become?? U had said he was making great strides. Oh yea and any other advances he may have had . Hope to hear from you soon.Kinky Couple
Okay Well his behavior, for the most part, is good. He hasn't peed inside in about a month, so I think he's fully trained in that aspect. The other day, when he wanted to go outside, he brought me his leash. He gets it now. Two months ago, he would have not bothered with the leash and gone inside.He is getting better about listening and obeying and paying attention, and maybe is going out of that "ADD" puppy stage. He sits and I'm still trying to work on stay and down. He jumped on my friend when she came over the other day, so that's a problem that we'll need to fix. He has made a few mistakes recently. He chewed the shoe lace off one of my shoes. (I still have yet to replace it.) There are chew toys all over the place in here, and he knows they are his. Guess he just wanted something different. He also stole some food a few times from the other dog (basset girl). She's started to leave her food and eat it slowly throughout the day. Usually he does not touch it, but he got tempted. And the most important to me: leash training! I bought a halti collar. It works well, but he will try to wiggle out of it or defeat it. It makes it easier to walk him, and he will walk well on it.Oh, and he loves to run! We will run around the apartment complex at least once a day!As far as sexual stuff, I'm not trying. Honestly, its slipped into the back of my priorities list. He keeps trying to lick me, and of course, I let him if I'm in the mood. He goes crazy for the taste, but I don't think it turns him on in that sense; its just something he likes to do. I think he is too young mentally for sex. Physically he looks completely grown. But he would rather go for a run with me than hump me. And that's fine with me. He's fun either way. He absolutely loves me. He will sit beside me, resting his head in my lap, or will walk up to me and lick my leg and just stare up at me with that sweet look in his eyes. He's adorable. He's sitting beside me right now.
Greetings! Your latest post is as it should be...Friends first, lovers later! Great to hear things are going so well...Good boy Roy!! I'll keep an eye out for the future Missy...ZG
You've had him 2 1/2 months, so I'm a little late throwing this bit in. Anyway, typically it takes 6-8 weeks for a dog to settle into a new home. At that point he accepts that this will be his new home, and he isn't going to be tossed out at any moment. All sorts of behaviors change. A dog that seemed timid, inhibited, shut down or depressed can finally relax and be more out-going. He might be more playful with you, and other dogs. Some problems like nervous destructive chewing may solve themselves. On the other hand, the newly-confident dog may find his will to bark at your neighbors, chase your cat, demand treats, and make a nuisance of himself. And a dog already prone to separation anxiety might get even worse once he decides he's really attached to you. Even if the dog was confident and eager for your attention on day one, you'll see a change in the quality of that attention, after the change. Obedience classes can be a good thing on either side of the 6-8 week threshold. Before, the lessons need not be "positive only," but they must be gentle, fair, and clearly communicated, because the goal is not the obedience exercise itself, but demonstrating to the dog that he can trust you in some different environments. After he really settles in, you can work on more advanced obedience, to develop a real sense of teamwork in doing something together. And of course helping him learn how to stay out of trouble!So Missy, I'm not saying you had any of those particular problems, but I'd be interested to hear what changes you've observed in Roy's personality, in the last month or so.
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Okay. He is much more confident than he had been when I first met him. I think he had been kept outside, so he was unsure about being inside, curious, but unsure. At least being in the vet kennel for awhile had helped him. I would take him out of the kennel at the clinic , and have to walk across the linoleum floor to get outside. He hated that flooring! was scared of it. I brought him home. He stayed out of the kitchen, only placing his front paws in to see what we were doing when we were in there. Now, I see him run across the kitchen floor, and am very pleased with how he overcame his fear.He gets along great with the basset hound girl. Very playful. So glad at how they get along so well. He is submissive towards her, she will steal his rawhide bones and he lets her without complaint! But I have seen him stick up for himself recently. She is rough, I'm going to have to keep a closer eye on those two now. I saw a scratch on his face after their rough play session today.He's more relaxed. Before he wouldn't sleep anywhere else but his kennel (his safe spot), but now he takes naps on the floor. He sleeps in his kennel every night. [3 bodies in my bed at night is enough! ] He also will go in the kennel on command, but sometimes I say so and he knows what I am saying, but runs around like its a game and I have to catch him. So yeah, more training to do, but we have gotten far already. Still not there yet.
Okay...It's been months since I've posted anything about my dog in here, so here's an update.He's doing wonderful. Pretty much does as told, is walking nicely on a leash, and knows a few commands. Still need to work on politeness around guests (he gets excited and playfully jumps on people). No potty accidents inside (except for two at the very beginning), which I think is amazing for a dog who spent his first year or so outdoors.As for me and him, we're very close now. Best friends. He's very sweet and cuddly. He's my big fluffy teddy bear. He loves to lick me, but I don't think he views it exactly as a sexual act. However, he will keep going long after I'm quite satisfied. He loves my taste! He also really loves the taste of human cum and will eagerly lick that out of me after I have had sex. However, when I present myself to him, he wants to do nothing but lick, never tries to mount.I wasn't sure if we would ever have sex... well today, he started humping so I got in the correct position, he mounted me, but didn't enter me. Humped for a moment, before jumping off me and walking away, wobbly because he still had a huge erection. At least he gets the idea now. So maybe next time will be successful. I'm going at his pace, which is slow...
Thank you Missy for the update!
Missy, always awesome posts. You are getting too predictable in being great! I can't wait to read more from you, fortunately I didn't have that problem with my dog.
We will be anxiously waiting for your updates. Sounds as when it happens it will be a wonderful moment for you.Kinky Couple
Excellent progress thread...just stumbled onto it and love reading your training and how the new family member is settling in. Sounds like everything is going well!
Let him go at his own speed and once he does get in, gets the feel he will do it natural which is better than trying to for it. Thanks for the updates
QUOTE (missywolf @ Aug 15 2008, 04:49 AM) thanks buckup. I don't like the punishment route. I do reward him whenever I can (my cupboard is full of doggy treats!) It hurts me to hurt him, if you know what I mean. I will do a quick hit on the muzzle, but not enough to hurt him. He yelped one time, and I guess I hit him hard, and I started to cry. I know, I'm such a baby...but I am starting to really love this dog, even if he can't respect me. I truly don't believe that punishment is a good way to gain respect with dogs. Sure it works with children, but dogs aren't really children. There must be another way.edit: and another thing, enough punishment will lead to fear. I don't want him to fear me. There can be respect without fear. There must be. I respect a lot of people without fearing them. instead of giving a treat when he does the right thing give him a hug that will fortify his confidence and U will still have a slim dog
^ you do know that many dogs don't like "hugs"? Mine doesn't mind, but there are some who, if you look at their face while they are being hugged, show total displeasure. I know his spot. He loves a scratch behind the ears. So that's usually his reward.
Hi Missywolf! I am by no means an expert on getting a dog to mate with a woman, but from what I have read there are a few things that might work that you haven't tried. Since you were more than kind to reply to my post , I think it's only fair I try to help you. I am not sure when you get your period next, but you could wait until you have your period and try this OR you could not shower/bathe for a day or two then go for a long walk run or whatever gets you nice and sweaty down stairs. You could also do BOTH which is what you may have to do. After your long run, get undressed in the room you let him lick your pussy in. Then once you are undressed get immediately on your hands and knees. Do NOT stand at all. Then just play with him. After a while he will want to lick your pussy. Encourage him and praise him. Then perhaps play with his penis a little bit afterwards. Eventually, he will start to hump the air. Make sure you present to him and keep your butt high in the air and your head low. When he mounts, use your hand to guide his penis into your pussy. Once inside you, he will thrust. He may dismount from time to time, but keep encouraging him. Also you could place him on your back and then guide him into you OR have your bf place him on your back. Your bf could also place the dog's penis inside your vagina when you are mounted by him as well. I am sure this is something you have thought of, but I do so want to help to help you, since you were kind enough to reply to my post. Best of luck to both you and your dog.
QUOTE (missywolf @ Jan 4 2009, 10:58 PM) ^ you do know that many dogs don't like "hugs"? Mine doesn't mind, but there are some who, if you look at their face while they are being hugged, show total displeasure. I know his spot. He loves a scratch behind the ears. So that's usually his reward. guess each dog has there magic spot
QUOTE but from what I have read there are a few things that might work that you haven't triedoh boy...guess I should post every detail. I'm on my period now, last day of it. I was on my period when he mounted me (and failed)Thanks for trying to help, I appreciate it. 10 for your efforts.
Any luck Missy!?!?
QUOTE (WomenAndDogSex @ Jan 24 2009, 07:56 PM) Any luck Missy!?!? No, not yet. But I did just get a really nice tip by PM to rub a tissue on a bitch in heat and then rub that onto me. Might try it, but the only intact female I see on a regular basis won't be in heat for a few months (I think. It doesn't seem that long ago that she was)
QUOTE (missywolf @ Jan 25 2009, 04:14 AM) QUOTE (WomenAndDogSex @ Jan 24 2009, 07:56 PM) Any luck Missy!?!? No, not yet. But I did just get a really nice tip by PM to rub a tissue on a bitch in heat and then rub that onto me. Might try it, but the only intact female I see on a regular basis won't be in heat for a few months (I think. It doesn't seem that long ago that she was) mis wolfy U should consider missionery position kick back on sofa and spread yur thighs this way when He jump up U can grab his dick and guide him in , once he feels the heat of yur vagina that should get him going , yur able to pet him calm him down cause he will B excited cause he wont know if he,s doing the right thing, mounting from the front his sheath will massage yur clit and that soft fur rubbing yur tummy plus after he knots U put yur heels against his ass so he cant back out and start doing keegle exercise should B good for a g spot orgasm
Hi Missywolf, It's Blackwolf. The most intense Lover I had was a stray. After having him checked out medicaly I couldn't keep him off me. Yes. He would nip my penis. What I did was push hi head away while still encouraging him to lick. I will admit that he didn't understand at fist, but he eventualy learned not to nip me any more.I hope that this advice helps
I am really glad that this community is so close and everyone shares their stories and experiences with one another .. Good luck with the dog
QUOTE (Rawrrz @ Jan 25 2009, 09:06 PM) I am really glad that this community is so close and everyone shares their stories and experiences with one another .. Good luck with the dog me too. Thanks for tips and comments guys.
Hey Missy, we were just talking last night how we havent heard any updates from you and Roy so I told Ty I would check your thread in the morning. Hope to hear about his progress both socially and sexually.Dawn
hey kinky couple. Thanks for asking.Honestly, there's been no updates because there is nothing to update on. Roy is same ol' sweet Roy. He's a good boy, at least.
Dear Missy.Your post is very exciting so don't be mad that we're waiting for news We have to be patient, I think
why would I be mad?
Missywolf, I bet you never thought of this at the time you created your first post on this great topic thread, but you have done something that I think is extremely beneficial for this forum by creating this topic thread. You have given newbies a very realistic and honest idea of just how long it CAN sometimes take for a dog to become completely comfortable with the idea of having sex with a human. So for those folks that think that they can simply bring home a dog one day and be having sex with it the next, this thread will hopefully make them stop and think very seriously about what they're getting into when taking on the commitment of getting a dog. A dog is not just a sex toy, it is a living, breathing thinking being which must be treated with lots of love and respect, and naturally it has feelings too. So getting a dog just to satisfy your own gratification is definitely the wrong reason to get a dog. Also, some dogs simply aren't into sex with humans, and as has been stated many times on this forum, they have that right. No one should ever force an animal to do something that it isn't comfortable doing!It just makes me sad to think that there are some people out there that once they realized that the dog they bought wasn't interested in sex, would ship it off to a new home. But thankfully most of us love dogs enough that we would be very happy to have the dog's trust, love and loyalty which is very beautiful in and of itself, and sex is actually just the icing on the cake so to speak.But Missywolf, there's another real benefit of having started this topic thread, and this benefit is especially for you. At the beginning, you seemed a bit discouraged and overwhelmed after the first month that you had Roy. Now you can read those first posts from this topic thread and see how far you've come since those posts were written. I also think you can be damn proud of what you've managed to accomplish with Roy. Training a dog is not always easy but it seems like you've succeeded in turning Roy from an energetic dog who wouldn't always listen to you, into a very loving and polite dog that truly wants to please you and who hangs on your every word. I'm giving you a 10 for this topic thread Missywolf, because I think it's such a positive thread on so many levels. It confirms all those statements that people read in the stickies but may not really pay that much attention to, things like, go very slowly, be very patient, don't expect too much from your dog too soon. Every dog learns things at a different rate, and that has to be taken into account as well. HOwever, although training a dog can be hard work, once you've put in the time and patience and love necessary to accomplish the task, the rewards more than make up for the sweat and frustration in the end. Great job Missywolf, and wonderful topic thread as well. I would imagine by now that you're really beginning to notice that his attention span is becoming much longer when training him, and I truly hope that soon you will be able to get him to mount you, and I bet once that happens, this will take your relationship to a whole new level.Congratulations hon.Shy
very true, shy.The thing is, when you get a dog, its important to get everything else down first before trying sex. He is a slow learner, but I can see that he is trying, and that's what matters. He aims to please. I got this dog, not for sex, but because I couldn't imagine not being with him after I met him. I fell in love with him, and even before taking him home, I spent hours with him. I knew what I was getting into, I just didn't know how it would turn out.
Ok, i`m into this...
QUOTE (ganeshalives @ Feb 7 2009, 12:39 PM) Ok, i`m into this... yeah? go on. You can tell me what you've done with your dog
nothing happen in between?
Anything new Missy?
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No.And I see no need for this thread to be bumped any more. Basic training is done. And sex is not happening.I have decided, and I'm not sure if I stated my thoughts exactly on this site yet or not, but here goes:As far as this dog is concerned, I'm not trying to have sex with him. Ever. Unless he initiates it, the chances are slim to none. I figured it was possible, but now I see him as a friend and I'm not trying anything. It seems awkward to me, especially considering that the dog has no interest in sex at all. If anything ever happens, I'll inform you guys, of course. I do, however, appreciate the interest members here have shown. So thanks, and take care.
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I would have to say that he is not interested in sex only because he does not know what sex is yet.. unless he's been doing other dogs. He needs to be shown and then you can determine if he is just not sexually into you.
Nice honest post.....there isn't a happy ending to every story 10++++vote for your posts
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