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I don't understand the OP's original question. And now it doesn't look I ever will.
Since he got booted within a couple days I don't think it's relevant... *heh*Essentially he was asking:Is it easier to find a zoo mate, or to start dating a non-zoo and bring them into the lifestyle.IMO neither one works. *LOL* I have yet to find, face to face, a zoo femme of any stripe, and the femmes I do know have pretty much point blank stated that it's not the scene for them.They're fine with me being that way, and a couple even joke/chat with me about it rather often, but are not curious to try.
Are you sure he wasn't asking if it wasn't easier to borrow a dog, or ask for someone to allow him to use or be used by their dog? Versus say buy/owning and training his own dog?
QUOTE (Underwolf69 @ May 11 2008, 09:50 PM) Essentially he was asking:Is it easier to find a zoo mate, or to start dating a non-zoo and bring them into the lifestyle. That's how I interpreted the question.In my opinion, from a heterosexual male perspective, I think it'd be easier to find a woman who's non-zoo and possibly coax her into giving bestiality a try. It seems that a lot of women in the zoo lifestyle either aren't interested in any sort of romantic or sexual relationship men to begin with, or they're extremely guarded and distrustful of men who are aroused by and supportive of their lifestyle. And, in all fairness, I think they're justified in those apprehensions.Most men are pretty dense, not overly sensitive or considerate, and when they discover or know a woman is into having sex with animals, they fixate on that single aspect of the woman. Thus, women tend to feel that that's all the man cares about, or they feel like some freak on display with the guy always pestering them for details or photos or video or to watch her do it sometime. So, zoo women aren't quick to trust, to lower their guard and let a guy get close.As such, I think it's going to take a intense instant chemistry or a lot of time and hard work to build a relationship with a woman into the lifestyle. Whereas, establishing a relationship with a non-zoo woman might be easier. I mean, you still have to have chemistry and establish trust, and the woman still might be cautious about your intentions, but you don't have that sensitive issue creating extra tension and boundaries between you. So, if you find a woman who's sexually adventurous, extremely kinky, and somewhat openminded, then you stand a good chance of swaying her into giving bestiality a try.Though, in truth, I don't know that I'd say either - finding a zoo mate or convincing a non-zoo to experiment in the lifestyle - is easy. They're both going to present challenges, just like any relationship.
QUOTE (MongoloidManiac @ May 12 2008, 05:26 AM) QUOTE (Underwolf69 @ May 11 2008, 09:50 PM) Essentially he was asking:Is it easier to find a zoo mate, or to start dating a non-zoo and bring them into the lifestyle. That's how I interpreted the question.In my opinion, from a heterosexual male perspective, I think it'd be easier to find a woman who's non-zoo and possibly coax her into giving bestiality a try. It seems that a lot of women in the zoo lifestyle either aren't interested in any sort of romantic or sexual relationship men to begin with, or they're extremely guarded and distrustful of men who are aroused by and supportive of their lifestyle. And, in all fairness, I think they're justified in those apprehensions.Most men are pretty dense, not overly sensitive or considerate, and when they discover or know a woman is into having sex with animals, they fixate on that single aspect of the woman. Thus, women tend to feel that that's all the man cares about, or they feel like some freak on display with the guy always pestering them for details or photos or video or to watch her do it sometime. So, zoo women aren't quick to trust, to lower their guard and let a guy get close.As such, I think it's going to take a intense instant chemistry or a lot of time and hard work to build a relationship with a woman into the lifestyle. Whereas, establishing a relationship with a non-zoo woman might be easier. I mean, you still have to have chemistry and establish trust, and the woman still might be cautious about your intentions, but you don't have that sensitive issue creating extra tension and boundaries between you. So, if you find a woman who's sexually adventurous, extremely kinky, and somewhat openminded, then you stand a good chance of swaying her into giving bestiality a try.Though, in truth, I don't know that I'd say either - finding a zoo mate or convincing a non-zoo to experiment in the lifestyle - is easy. They're both going to present challenges, just like any relationship. [COLOR=green]I think this was a very good explanation across the board. Me being zoo, found my husband who is non zoo even now, but he is will to listen and not judge me for it, and personally I think he is even becoming "turned on" with the aspect. He had many questions, I answer them as well and truthful as I can. Though he does joke that he won't be getting a dog soon because he will always wonder at work "what I am doing at home" *laughs*... But I can almost bet by allowing him to understand and come to conclusion's himself I do see a dog in out future. Though like the post I am trying to respond to, dealing with zoo issuses in a realtionship is not much diffrent than dealing others things that come out unless they think you are a freak !.. Oh That's right I am a primal freak : )
well as many of you already know, I had a very easy time finding a good mate. I've been told many times that we (my mate and I) are very lucky. For those who haven't heard my story:basically my boyfriend and I were both interested in bestiality but never said anything to each other and one day, after stumbling upon some pictures on the internet it was apparent I was aroused, and there it starts. So basically it was all accident, fate, luck, whatever you want to call it. Personally I think it would be harder to get someone interested if they weren't already interested due to people's beliefs, ideas, morals, etc that they have already formed which can be hard to break or remedy. If you get someone interested who wasn't before I would think that they must have already secretly been interested. I guess I can't really say because I hav eno experience convincing anyone into our lifestyle, but I imagine it would be hard. QUOTE So, if you find a woman who's sexually adventurous, extremely kinky, and somewhat openminded, then you stand a good chance of swaying her into giving bestiality a try.and this is the only way I see that happening.
Just in case anyone was curious. The OPs avatar is an italian greyhound. And it's a bully as well!
QUOTE (MongoloidManiac @ May 12 2008, 05:26 AM) QUOTE (Underwolf69 @ May 11 2008, 09:50 PM) Essentially he was asking:Is it easier to find a zoo mate, or to start dating a non-zoo and bring them into the lifestyle. That's how I interpreted the question.In my opinion, from a heterosexual male perspective, I think it'd be easier to find a woman who's non-zoo and possibly coax her into giving bestiality a try. It seems that a lot of women in the zoo lifestyle either aren't interested in any sort of romantic or sexual relationship men to begin with, or they're extremely guarded and distrustful of men who are aroused by and supportive of their lifestyle. And, in all fairness, I think they're justified in those apprehensions.Most men are pretty dense, not overly sensitive or considerate, and when they discover or know a woman is into having sex with animals, they fixate on that single aspect of the woman. Thus, women tend to feel that that's all the man cares about, or they feel like some freak on display with the guy always pestering them for details or photos or video or to watch her do it sometime. So, zoo women aren't quick to trust, to lower their guard and let a guy get close.As such, I think it's going to take a intense instant chemistry or a lot of time and hard work to build a relationship with a woman into the lifestyle. Whereas, establishing a relationship with a non-zoo woman might be easier. I mean, you still have to have chemistry and establish trust, and the woman still might be cautious about your intentions, but you don't have that sensitive issue creating extra tension and boundaries between you. So, if you find a woman who's sexually adventurous, extremely kinky, and somewhat openminded, then you stand a good chance of swaying her into giving bestiality a try.Though, in truth, I don't know that I'd say either - finding a zoo mate or convincing a non-zoo to experiment in the lifestyle - is easy. They're both going to present challenges, just like any relationship. Very well said. 10 for you.
I think making some "accept" or "understand" your interests for beeing a zoo and even contribute can be tricky or even dangerous. He/she could deny your request and tell that stuff around later on and soon you'll probably be the well-known person who likes horses "the other way". Contacting a person with 99& guarantee of having the same interests is more safe...
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QUOTE (energydog @ May 12 2008, 08:38 PM) Just in case anyone was curious. The OPs avatar is an italian greyhound. And it's a bully as well! thats a scary looking dog, it kind looks shopped, but if i ever run into a dog that buff and he so much as growls at me, you better believe i'm running the other way o_O
It's not a photoshop, its a bully whippet. The dog has a genetic condition caused by a mutated gene that causes double muscle.
He could make a Pit Bull feel inadequate. edit: she's a girl named Wendy!
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