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Dunno why but now I have a dog, I don't want to have sex with him. I love him but he is hard work and I think all the training and exercising I have to do with him just takes me to saturation point! I don't think it's a bad thing, because I didn't get him just to shag him, I did want to train and be more active and just enjoy his company and I assumed I would want to be intimate with him as I have been before with dogs and enjoyed it so I find it a bit surprising. But I am actually just happy to have him as a platonic companion. Instead I'm indulging my equine leanings way more, I have always found them *most* sexy anyway Anyone else have this?
QUOTE (renn @ Aug 4 2007, 01:41 PM) Dunno why but now I have a dog, I don't want to have sex with him. I love him but he is hard work and I think all the training and exercising I have to do with him just takes me to saturation point! I don't think it's a bad thing, because I didn't get him just to shag him, I did want to train and be more active and just enjoy his company and I assumed I would want to be intimate with him as I have been before with dogs and enjoyed it so I find it a bit surprising. But I am actually just happy to have him as a platonic companion. Instead I'm indulging my equine leanings way more, I have always found them *most* sexy anyway Anyone else have this? I went to a friend's house after work today, and she has three dogs. Two male, one female. It was weird, as I looked into the most affectionate and eager of the 3, I totally thought to myself "Wow, I don't think maybe I'm cut out for a sexual relationship with ANY dog. I'm okay with just this and reading, watching, fantasizing etc". It came off to me as totally strange if I were to even think of anything sexual with this dog despire having learned so much from this board and read people's many viewpoints. It could have something to do with it not being my dog, and resembling none I've ever owned before, but it just feels like it would be too weird now/ too much, I don't know. I don't think I'd want to seek anything more than companionship. Well we'll see.
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Well Renn im glad you can have the dog as just a companion. Maybe more "playful" stuff will come later. You may change your mind or something
Don't think that there's anything wrong with that.I've come across plenty of people (and animals) that I've had no interest in shagging, but so what?There've been plenty of people (and animals) that were never interested in shagging me, doesn't mean that we didn't have a connection as it were.Not every relationship has to be about sex. Just enjoy it for what it is.
I've had the same thing occur with other dogs that I've had...in some cases we eventually ended up being sexually involved and in some cases we didn't...sometimes it takes a little while to develop, and sometimes it doesn't happen...in time you'll figure it out.
if the dog hasn't grown to an adult yet, you might feel it's wrong to do any sexual activities with him/her. so maybe, like someone else said, it might take a while for you to feel like you want to get involved i guess you could say.
Not having sex with your dog isnt a bad thing,most just make good friends. Maybe later he'll initiate things and you'll feel different,or maybe you won't,it's also YOUR decision whether to let it go further. Some dogs will just be friendly,some will make an attempt and some will practically hump a hole in your jeans(hopefully not in front of someone)
Don't think that there's anything wrong with that.I've come across plenty of people (and animals) that I've had no interest in shagging, but so what?There've been plenty of people (and animals) that were never interested in shagging me, doesn't mean that we didn't have a connection as it were.Not every relationship has to be about sex. Just enjoy it for what it is.
Having sexual relations with any animal is a BIG step.If you are not ready for it.Or you don't think zoo is for you....Then DON'T DO IT!Last thing the zoo community needs is another person that felt they was somehow pressured into it.Just as long as you are still friendly with us practicing zoos.
Great point that you just see the dog as a companion it is ok if there is never any attraction just be sure that you never neglect the animal. There are plenty of animals that I would never have sex with.
I must say that what you have - a pet as a companion - is amongst the best things you can probably have, ever! I find it far more exciting to think of my dog in an emotional way: Trust, affection, love, cuddling, understanding without talking. These are the best things a dog and I can share.Sex is a nice extra that we share, but it's an extra and if the dog or me don't want it, well, that's ok, and nobody is disappointed.So what about you? You have a companion, but no sex. So what. If it works for both of you, there's no problem at all, and I'm pretty sure it'll work for both of you. So enjoy the relationship!Prank
I definately know I do like dogs in 'that' way, I've had sex with one before and enjoyed it very much, its just strange how you seek to repeat something for so long and then once you maybe get the chance....the desire is gone!
I think that's fine, Renn. In fact, I'd say you got the dog for all the right reasons and are doing everything right.Enjoy your dog just as he is. If you are happy, that's the main thing.LTD
Its perfectly fine to be platonic with your animal companions. Heck a lot of married human couples go for long stretches with little or no sex, but the participants still love each other deeply.
Companionship with your dog is certainly a good thing to have, and one of the many benefits of having one, just because you are sexually attracted to them doesnt mean you have to jump at every oppourtunity, having a great companion and friend alone is worth it in itself
I couldn't stop myself from starting another sexual relationship with a dog, if one was easily available. However I do know what renn is talking about here. When I first got my Lab, I got him with the full intention of sex. However I could only see him as my little puppy, even when he was fully grown. Finally I decided to take the plunge regardless, and I'm glad I did. But for a while there I wasn't intereste4d in having a sexual relationship with him.
Hi Renn! Had a vaguely similar experience. I was not long ago interested in exploring my bi side. I fantasized about it a long time, and thought it was going to be just great. But when the opportunity finally came, I realized I really didn't want to. Go figure...Maybe he's just not the right dog for you, that way? Or maybe is because you've had such an intense (for lack of a better word) conventional relationship that now it seems strange to think of him in another light? Anyway, if you are happy with your companionship, that's what's really important. Maybe you have just been leaning more towards horses since your canine encounter? Or do other dogs still excite you? If that's the case, then I'm sure it's just because of the nature of your relationship - all of your work with him in "pet" category has removed him from the "potential lover" category. Perhaps?Anyway, just my $0.02.
he's not a puppy, although i don't believe he is four as the rescue told me, i think thats been mixed up somewhere, I think he's 2 at the most - he's still pretty puppyish. Thinking about it, no, i dont think dogs do turn me on that much anymore I may have totally gone over to the equine side....
I completely understand this. I have four dogs, but I only engage in activity like this with one of them. I touch him, let him lick me ( LOVE the tongue. Omg. What an incredible pleasure. He laps at me while I rub on my clit. It's amazing. ) But he's the only dog of mine I feel comfortable doing it with. I tried with my girl jack russell, but she didn't like it...and I didn't exactly feel right about doing it ( even though I think bitches are INCREDIBLY sexy. I would really like one that is comfortable with me, actually.) I don't know what it is. But for right now... I just feel comfortable with him and none of my other dogs. I may have to take some pictures and/or video to contribute to you guys. ;)
Renn, I have the same issue with my G/F hun. Shes hard work, and I'am quite happy not to shag her. If its gonna happen it will, anyways as he's new get him trained and bond with him first, then take it from there.
Well I would just like to say that its just like having a girl friend , just because u have a friend that a girl does not mean u have to have sex with her ,similarly just because you have a dog doesn't mean you have to do it.its more to do what you feel like for an individual , not something that has to be the same with everyone
I think that is a very good thing. It's great that you want him as a companion first and formost, and who knows, maybe sometime down the road, you might get the urge to make him a mate as well.
Giving a dog a happy home and a good life is what really matters, of course you should enjoy his company to. you can always change your mind later on.
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